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Lithotherapy and Life Path

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Hello everyone :slight_smile:

If you will allow me, I would like to share with you here a very personal but truly extraordinary experience, as it triggered a series of completely unexpected events in my life.
I don't want to share my background here; it would be too long to tell, and I also don't really want to reveal all of my private life.
So I will try to explain to you what happened to me.
I met a person at a time in my life when I was desperate to see my family situation improve. To put it bluntly, this situation had been steadily following a downward curve for years. The main issue stemmed from my husband’s condition. What can I say but that I had come to believe that the more I tried to pull my husband out of his torpor, the more I worsened his condition. Now I would say that I feel as though I have spent 20 years by the side of an autistic person. On the emotional level alone, my husband seemed to live in his bubble. I monologued for all those years because nothing seemed to penetrate him, as if there were an invisible screen between him and me that was thickening faster and faster. All my words crashed against the wall of his apparent indifference. I fought windmills, I wept with anger at my inability to pull him out of his muteness, out of his parallel world in which he had shut himself in, and above all seeing that the doctors had no other advice to give me than: Madam, divorce or take a lover.
My husband was very kind, but he absolutely did not fulfill the role of a father to our children.
No instruction, no authority over them.
Then, after the escalation of unthinkable events that had been piling up, I met this person who, like me, was focused on the development of their spiritual path.
No, not to help me solve this grave problem, but solely to give me a gift, this person took me to a mineral shop. She had herself had a life path bracelet made of minerals and wanted to offer me mine. The person who runs the shop is a medium and lithotherapist, but there is no sign of this on the storefront of her shop.
An extraordinary clientele in this timeless little space; we don’t know each other, yet we talk as if we’ve known each other forever. We arrive at a precise time and leave hours later, having missed our turn ten times over. The woman works while speaking with several people at once, serving customers at her whim, all within a warm and fraternal atmosphere. When it’s my turn, she notes my birth first names, my father’s surname, and my mother’s surname. Then, based on classic numerology (letter = number), she derives eight numbers, each corresponding to a mineral and a specific trait: Base, Summit, Life Path, Calling, Personality, Expression, Touch, and Wishes. She lets me craft my own splendid beaded necklace representing my life path. Then she herself attaches a silver clasp and puts the necklace around my neck.
She takes my hands and speaks to me, telling me about my life. I start crying like a madeleine, then she does a "pass" with a scarf in front of my chakras and tells me: it's over, you won't cry anymore from now on, you are three times opal, from head to toe, you need to try to ground yourself because you are only connected to the light, but now your life will completely change, you will see all the blockages in your life disappear.
I got home, wearing my necklace; my husband seemed to have noticed nothing, but he referred to it in a roundabout way. The next evening, he invited me to go out after dinner to talk; I thought I was hallucinating. He wanted to speak to me::slight_smile: We went out, and with difficulty but gradually, he began to talk to me. From that evening on, and for days and nights, a torrent of words poured from his mouth. I had to listen to him; night and day, he no longer slept, waking up as if emerging from a coma. He lost 18 kilos in 2 months, and he began to become aware of others in the literal sense of the term; he literally panicked, thinking, but there are people, do they love me? A true story to fall asleep to for me! I had the impression of emerging from a nightmare that had lasted 20 years. Suddenly, he told me that I was beautiful, desirable, that he was madly in love with me. I had reached the point of no return in my relationship with him. Then that veil that tore for me meant that I had succeeded in what I had been desperately trying to do for 20 years: waking him up!
I will skip the details; he met the woman the medium had predicted for him when she took his hands (I had brought him to her to have his life path read). Two months after it was made, my necklace snapped in two and I felt as if something terrible had happened. I came home and realized my husband was no longer the same. He withdrew into this new woman and her children, and from then on I became a stranger to him, an intruder, who knows what else? I saw the medium again and she told me: “It is so; you have accomplished the work you came to do for him, and now this new woman takes your place.” For me, since then, it has meant the onset of a divorce and the complete loss of my family life.
Since we are on a rather esoteric site here, I took the liberty of sharing this experience with you. Your opinions, whatever they may be, interest me, because you must surely realize that no one in my circle or in my family wants to believe my story, since, of course, there is nothing that can be rationally explained. I am considered a madwoman, but that is of little importance. I would like to know if anyone here has had an experience similar to this one.
Thank you for having the courage to read my long message; I look forward to your comments, thank you in advance!

Hello The High Priestess,

It takes a great deal of dignity and courage, but also love within oneself and trust, to entrust a part of one’s life; such a long journey deserves an answer.
Thank you for all of this, for entrusting me with this dimension, which is credible and, in my view, full of love and compassion.

However, I don't perceive any movement in you through your story.

An enormous capacity for courage, understanding, and patience
I am discovering your story, and so many different paths resonate with it, along with so many parameters.

This resignation in your words, I can understand it, this humility too, this love for your husband too, but where are you in all of this?

This woman, who appears to be a guide, leads you to free yourself from this weight of discomfort, rigidity, and relational death.
Where are you in all of this?

I do not wish to disrupt your story; quite the opposite, in my view it is the story of a woman, a wife, and a mother of great courage and great dignity.
But where are you in all of this?

I kiss you
Lolly

OPAL…

There are several types of opal, and my favorite is fire opal… for its colors, but not only…

Opal is not only linked to grounding; it is a stone of great power. When worn during depression or distress, it is formidable in its restitution. One must be aware of this. Many stones have this yin and yang spectrum, and one must gauge within oneself the capacity for their benevolence or for their ruptures in action when wearing them.

Stones have immense power; they must be honored, and one must maintain exclusively thoughts of joy, love, and trust when wearing or using them, but I think you are already aware of this.

Best regards
Lolly

Thank you, LOLLY, with all my heart.
Your response is thoughtful and prompts me to reflect; I will get back to you as soon as possible.
I'm overwhelmed today. :slight_smile:

Opal does not allow for grounding, Lolly, which is why I find it incredibly difficult to find interest in material things, even though I respect them; they remain secondary to me. To compensate for this lack, I added a beautiful staurolite to the center of my stone necklace when I remade it (also known as staurolite, the Russian cross stone). It is a true grounding and anchoring stone that helps maintain the alignment of the chakras. However, if I wear the opal, I wear it alone, as it doesn’t particularly like the company of other stones.
Fire opal works on inhibitions. It is especially helpful in freeing us from painful past experiences; it is a noble stone! But as you say, it can be formidable in its release. That is why I wear a common white opal; for me, it is better because it has calming effects. It is said that on the physical level, it is an elixir of youth. It is the symbol of tender love and the purity of feelings.
Indeed, stones are beneficial and they must be used with immense respect.

I will try to answer your very interesting question, but it is not easy because everything is open to interpretation, so I will just give it a try…
YES, indeed, I quote you: However, I do not perceive any movement in you through your story.
On the one hand, I take a lot of distance when I look back on my journey, so imagine telling it… So where am I in all of this?
I am above all, and this is what characterizes me most, a witness to my own life; I am a perpetual contemplative. Note that this does not at all mean resigned, inactive, or unconscious—NO!
I know today that this journey, of which I have recounted here only a tiny fraction, is a true initiatory path. My initiatory path. It is astonishing what that which appears strictly negative can bring in terms of spiritual awakening. It is already a path toward self-knowledge that I have pursued with perseverance. It is also an opening, an inner enrichment that cannot be put into words, for it transcends understanding.
For me, day-to-day material life has been a battle against inertia, and that’s putting it mildly! And yet, I had to make do…
When you have oil on the fire constantly, you keep an eye on it to prevent a fire. In the literal sense, let’s say I have never been able to be in two places at once.

In my opinion, this story is mostly about a karmic debt or a specific task for a future action.
I have a sense of duty fulfilled. I also know that if I had had an outside activity and a driver’s license, I would never, ever have stayed in this situation. The inability to perform the most basic actions for others compelled me to do what I would have fled at full speed had I been independent. I think this is no coincidence. I am even convinced of it.

I now have, of course, the immense joy—and also the fright, which is normal—of regaining my freedom and becoming independent.
I don’t say everything, Lolly, because I don’t want to speak ill of certain people in my circle, including my own family, but it is obvious that I have never been wanted to be independent, today as yesterday. Parental suggestions, but above all actions of psychological and material pressure, have been constant. And it has been at the cost of immense effort that I have overcome obstacle after obstacle for 30 years.
Today, I have an inner vision that no longer goes through the external aspect of things; let’s say I go directly beyond appearances. From the age of 33, I began to question myself, to question everything I had been indoctrinated with, everything that is part of the respectable and the non-respectable, etc. I read a lot and learned that truth has multiple angles of vision. The most important thing is that each vision is a microcosm, a world unto itself. There are billions of ways to understand, but only one way to listen: silence!
When you erase the discursive thoughts of the mind, silence is a magical door from which miracles emerge!

To wrap up, LOLLY, my story, like any story, can only be fully understood in its context, but the person who writes it, even if they have lived it themselves, merely interprets events from their own way of functioning. That is why the story of my life is of little importance; its value lies in what it has enabled in terms of spiritual evolution on both sides.

See you soon LOLLY, I'm hugging you too :-*

Hello la_papesse,
First of all, a big thank you for sharing this story with us. Someone once told me that we have a period of time or a stretch of the road to walk with someone. And when that stretch of the road we are meant to walk together is over, it is time to “move on.”
In your story, there is either karmic debt, an initiatory path, or an attempt to help someone else in life.
You say you felt like you had been living with an autistic man.
You know, two people in my life have also given me that feeling: my father, who retreated into his ivory tower (and whom we couldn't help), and my husband.
How many times have I asked myself: something is gnawing at their well-being, something is keeping them in their own bubbles, but I wanted to help and couldn't.
I think that the way you tell your story is your way of detaching yourself from your past, your relationship, and so on.
Often I wonder whether it is truly my life, my life as a couple, my family life, to support, to give, to listen, without knowing whether I am succeeding?
Lately, I’ve also felt a greater need to feel supported by my family or the people in my personal life.
With all my stories, my energy seems quite depleted, and I wonder whether I should throw in the towel to refocus on myself and regain my energy on my own, rather than worrying about others and only about myself.

As for your other claim, I believe you, and I also believe this lithotherapist. Some people may have genuine abilities to “see” and therefore to “help.”

Your 'help' path toward your husband is over, and someone else is taking over, as you say. It also seems to me that you have done what you could for him... What do you think?

:-*
Best regards
ClaudiaC

Hello The High Priestess

I just wanted to tell you the immense pleasure I get from reading your posts. Your words are always just right, your thinking is clear and, all in all, objective, which is a sign of the great work you have done on yourself (and on others). I would love to have the chance to chat with you over a good cup of coffee :)
Regarding the stones, could you perhaps give us some advice?
With affection
Marie

Hello Marie,
I just wanted to tell you that The High Priestess gives me the same impression and that I share your view :wink:
ClaudiaC

To you, Misses: :-* A BIG THANK YOU

I'm sorry, you can't see it, but honestly I am crying and I assure you this is coming from the heart. I just had a fight with my husband, who has decided to throw me out as soon as he has paid me my due in cash.
He wants me to squat somewhere else, while I demand a period of time to find an apartment. It’s my right. Because for now, without money, I can’t make any arrangements, and I want to start over in another city.

So, you see, your thoughts about me are a huge comfort to me, because at home I am treated as if I am worthless. I have a rough idea of what I am worth, but being constantly belittled and enduring this ongoing psychological pressure is very difficult. Well, let’s move on to something else. :slight_smile: We're not going to let ourselves get knocked down. As they say back home, weeds are hard to pull out, LOL.

You know, girls, it would be an immense pleasure for me to share a moment with you over a good cup of coffee. You too, LOLLY, no hard feelings for our little squabbles. Communication is difficult, isn’t it! And I admit that I’m a bit special too, LOL

You see, Claudia, you’re right: there’s a lot of detachment in the way I tell my story, because that’s the only way to gain perspective on one’s own experience and stop feeling guilty. People who oppress others most often resort to various highly unacceptable methods to get what they demand; this involves guilt-tripping, manipulation, threats, emotional or financial blackmail, and so on. It’s only afterward that we realize that the strongest are not the oppressors but rather the oppressed, because strength is inner freedom, whereas weakness is the fear of loss, which leads one to cling to others at all costs.
My path of helping my husband is indeed over, Claudia, but what is hard is seeing who he is now. When he opened up, the new personality that emerged was magnificent. I would have dreamed of spending these 20 years with a man like that. Then, when he closed off, he became a third man, a stranger, a deceitful and manipulative being. My daughter says it looks like Dad is possessed by a negative entity. That is a very lucid observation. He has forgotten everything we exchanged over the past two months, our promises to remain united despite the divorce. The people around us mock me, claiming that every divorce goes like this and that one never remains friends. But I know that I have worked for the well-being of each person, that I am benevolent, and that I do not build my comfort on the misfortune of others. And yes, we must finally accept that I can no longer help him and that he is my adversary. Yet I cannot help but feel pity for him. It is stronger than me! I have done what I could, Claudia, and I am sure that one must make many mistakes and constantly correct oneself, for no one is perfect and we are here to constantly evolve in the pursuit of a better attitude. Guilt is useless; we act according to our conscience and our heart, and for the rest, God will judge.
Can we throw in the towel? I think we have our own free will, to continue or to stop along the way, but there are still questions, still "whys" that no matter how much we torment our minds, we won't get answers to. Unless we do regression or go see a channeler to find out what acts we committed in other lives that make us have to help repair our wicked deeds today.

Marie, when it comes to minerals, I’m just a beginner. I’m quite interested in them and I have a few books on the subject, but advising you? I could do what anyone would: open a book and tell you about the virtues of the stones you’re interested in. Oh, I also have an index that lists ailments and the stones that counteract them. P.S. I’ve kept your kind text message in mind.

There you go, thank you again. Don't throw me any flowers; I am just as full of flaws as I try, as best I can, to correct. And don't forget that the one writing is The_Pope, who knows a hundred times more than my little self, LOL.

We are all a stone in the construction of everyone's happiness. :wink: There is no difference between you and me, you and others; we are all interdependent because we are but ONE.

Warm regards :-*

Good evening, everyone,

At the request of The High Priestess (we are in regular contact), I looked through my lithotherapy archives and found this website, “Les pierres du monde,” where they explain crystal necklaces and bracelets. Moreover, it is a very comprehensive site for explanations and interesting to read.

For my part, I am also involved in this field, but it is so vast that I am focusing on the purchase of healing crystals.

Good night and see you one of these evenings..

An ancient Atlantean.. ;) Who knows..

Yours in spirit

Numb3rs

THANK YOU My Dear Friend for the link :wink:

It's hard to work on two sites at the same time!
What a pity, your presence here would have been a great pleasure for us.

Better not turn your back on me, or I’ll make enemies. Go to work, you old hermit. :wink: You have a lot on your plate.

BZés :-*

Oh, I forgot, why does Numb3rs talk about Atlantis?

Here is the answer: Those who wear crystals today were Atlanteans. It is said to be the sign that identifies them to one another so they can recognize each other.

Atlantis has become a legend, just as everything that tends to disappear will one day become one, including our civilization, when it has been swallowed by the waters, who knows?

Dear the Papess,

I skimmed your reply; it’s long and rich too. I’ll take the time to read it and listen to what resides in your words and in your higher self.

I would like to first congratulate you on the moments you offer, in wisdom, in discovery, and in humility.

If you have put love into your writings, I will receive them as such and pay tribute to them.

Welcome to Numbers13. It is said that light beings discover that they are such, and their energies open in this regard. They are supported and remain under the word and protection of the ascended masters. They are accompanied every day, and the energy of transmutation into purity is granted to them for healing.

I do not have the authority to grant you that, but I do make this request to many people on this site.

Your paths are in love, and I would try to join you in that if it is announced to me by Sananda.

There are people who are like that on this site, and I look forward to joining this chain of love every day.

Best regards

Lolly

Hello la_papesse and Numb13rs,

How can one know whether they are well or whether they have been an Atlantean?

Kind regards,
ClaudiaC

Hello la_papesse,
Of course it hurts you that you never got to know another side of your husband…
Yes, I’d like to shower you with compliments and have a coffee with you too. :wink: if the opportunity arises one day.
Kisses,
ClaudiaC

Dear the Papess,

To reply to your messages,

Many points strike me as both contrasting and contradictory, even paradoxical.

But that concerns you, and it remains your journey.

However, please point out the places where you address me.

And to answer you...

First of all, regarding the mineral, please allow me to add Celestial Eye Obsidian, which I believe is more suitable for releasing past experiences, whether they are karmic or related to the current incarnation.

However, be careful! This is a stone that demands immense respect, or beware of the backlash… It must always be used with clear quartz for its recovery in clarity and purity of this cleansing and healing work.

As for petty quarrels, I have no resonance with them within myself, so I cannot speak of what, for me, has only the significance of what is attributed to malice.

I don't know if you're special or if we're all special, men and women alike…

Yet at the same time unique, and immensely rich when one does not seek to exploit the distress of life and its beings for personal gain…

The same is true when one casts oneself as the guilty party or as a pseudo-sacrifice for others.

Each of us is immense, if we remain in humility and do not present ourselves as victims, or simply as fulfilled by feeling the entirety of our infinity within us, in silence; I share your view and withdraw beneath this sharing…

Peace be with you and infinite light-filled love
Best regards

Lolly

Dear The High Priestess,

I have noted a movement that seems significant to me, and I am asking you the question again: “Where are you, where do you stand?”

In your long text, I don't understand this conclusion of yours:

I quote you,

And don't forget the one who writes, that's The_Pope, she knows 100 times more than my little self LOL

(Could you clarify what you mean by that?)

Good luck and strength of love
in your process.

Best regards

Lolly

Just a quick question for LOLLY, please.
Do you think, or have you ever heard, that when one changes their vibrational frequency, the body purifies itself and one becomes ill?
It might sound silly, but here’s why I’m asking: today I was terribly ill, I was writhing in pain from a dreadful headache, and I vomited until I was rolling on the floor. It was truly like a stomach bug or food poisoning. The migraine had been brewing for a few days. I ended up getting injections and two doctor’s visits.
But strangely, an idea imposed itself on me all day long (I’m changing frequency), and my friend Numb13rs voiced the same idea to me on the phone, and this afternoon he called a friend to tell her that I was too sick to reach out as promised, and she said exactly what both of us were thinking without us having agreed on it.
Strange, I don't know what to make of it?
Here is my LOLLY, I have no idea at all whether I am being helped by an ascended master, I have no clue about that and I have never even asked myself that question.
I know that the emissaries of Light exist; it is self-evident to me. But I believe that all of us, if we so choose, can let the light guide our lives. Simply by opening ourselves more and more to its heart each day. As I told Claudia in a private message, our body is the temple of God; there is nowhere else to look for it. Everything is within; the outside is an illusion.
For my part, I only believe that I let my heart speak when I write, as there is no effort of reflection. The words just come.

If I say that I am special, it is simply because I am a small, simple person, very solitary and very shy, who seeks silence and flees from the world, and deep within me there is an unnamed grandeur that possesses a quiet strength and assurance, full of courage and wordless understanding, and that works beyond the material.

See you very soon, I hope, as my presence online is likely to become increasingly rare, for the end is near for me on September 18. Day 9, Month 9, Year 9: DIVORCE!!!
After the Nameless Arcanum, The Jester::slight_smile: At least I hope so!

Good evening, everyone!

I am very interested in lithotherapy, the study of which tends to fascinate me, as does everything in the paramedical field.

Also, thanks to our friend Number_13 for the link.

The_Pope, very interesting that this change in you is due to a necklace.

With Lolly, sublime princess, I thank you for the details on opals, obsidian, and quartz crystal, which were very enriching.

As for the following, … I would like to know my ascended master, if I have one, as well as my light guide, but what does that have to do with alternative medicine? You should have posted in a different section.

And now we’re on the frequencies! Well, I’ll need to know how many megahertz so I can avoid that station if it’s going to make me sick.
For my part, right now, I would like an explanation of what vibrational frequencies are and what a radio station change consists of!
I am curious by nature, so I need details, please.

You should have been careful with your meal, La_papesse, and not eaten spoiled food. Gluttony sometimes has rather unpleasant effects.

And since we are on an esoteric website, I will take this opportunity to remind you that a good, well-made young man aids in meditation and the spiritual elevation of the soul.

And given the “alternative medicine” section… a well-built young man is a very good remedy for maintaining good health. We should all fast once a week.

And since there is intoxication, our friend Lolly had previously shared in a post the many virtues of apple cider vinegar: drinking a spoonful each morning helps you better assimilate spoiled food without getting sick.

Best regards

Best regards

Hello my little queen (not the bike, of course) smiles,

You know what, the ascended masters have names, and quite beautiful names at that. I’ll send you the websites where you can educate yourself on the spiritual side of things.

If you approach them with humility, love, and great respect, they will be there, speak to you, and envelop you in free and vast teachings.

It is not we who invite them, but rather they who respond to the love within us, as well as to the courage and welcome of life and harmony.

As for the vibratory field, I have nothing to add, or else we would be lifeless beings…

I love you

pretty little flower of reason

Lollipop

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