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Good evening,
Well, I’m not dreaming about my mother, but about my maternal grandmother, who passed away on October 15th. I was very close to her, and she passed just a few hours after my last visit, but she was asleep and felt my kiss on her forehead because she reacted in her sleep! In my last dream this night, I was at the religious ceremony, and she was lying in state, visible to everyone in the church. I wanted to approach her, and then she turned her head toward me and opened her eyes. She said, “It’s you…” She stared at me; her eyes were strange, but I recognized her. The moment was cut short because my aunt’s voice and presence stopped us, saying, “No, we have to let her be, she needs to go,” and I woke up in tears, my heart pounding!
Well, I'm not really sure what that means???

Hello ddetsand,
First of all, I think you were very close to your grandmother and that you appreciated her a great deal, and that is also why you dream about her.
Did she manage to tell you anything else?

As for your aunt, do you get along well with her?

Hello, dreaming of our deceased is truly a reality… they come to us to inform us of certain important messages for our evolution…

How did you feel, and how do you feel today, in relation to this grief? Look deep within yourself… trembling and sweating, and perhaps a small part of you that hasn’t processed certain aspects of this grief, and the message is clear: “Let her go”… a suggestion, perhaps to pray for her and for yourselves, so that she can carry out what she has to do. The message is clear: “Leave her alone.”

Tenderness/Rolande

It’s true, I completely agree with the others. You need to let your grandmother go in peace. I know it’s easier said than done, but it’s necessary for her soul to rest in peace, and for you too.

Good evening, and thank you all for your interest.
Yes, I was very close to my grandmother, as she was my second mother... Holidays, weekends, after-school outings from the age of seven, and later, a confidante for adult problems, and in turn, a mother to me.
But in the last year, she played two dirty tricks on me, and instead of supporting me through my ordeal and smoothing things over in my relationship with my own parents, she drove me down, and I suffered a great deal. In doing so, she prepared me while she was still alive to grieve her… I never understood why she had abandoned me in my final trials, perhaps because of her age, and since my parents were taking care of things, it was probably easier for her… In short, when she passed away, I didn’t grieve much, contrary to my family’s expectations, who thought I would fall apart, and my mother even tried to make me feel guilty by telling me that I had abandoned her… For me, my history with her is quite clear; I retain a lot of love for her, but the threshold had been prepared in that year…
Moreover, she was suffering from her old age, and when I saw her deceased, I told her, "You are well now, isn't it better!"
So I don’t feel like I’m holding onto it; I feel quite at ease in this relationship… My aunt—I can’t say I have a great relationship with her… but she’s her mother!
Well, I'm not quite sure what to make of all this…
Kisses to everyone!

Sometimes an unconscious feeling manifests itself through dreams… the unconscious is our best friend…
What is not expressed is imprinted…

Tenderness/Rolande