The blocks...

Hello everyone,

Here is a brief reflection on the theme of blocking.

I often hear about blockages, but where do they come from, given that we all desire freedom and peace?
My conclusion is that our blockages stem from our attachment to either material/financial matters or the affective/sentimental realm, and this is because we fail to let go, to take responsibility, or simply to let others live the life they desire.
In short, you shouldn't always feel responsible for others for life; everyone has their own life path and choices.

Take up your pens...

Best regards
The magician.

Hello,
I think the problem is that sometimes we love the wrong way... it's so simple and so complicated at the same time! We would like to spare the people we love from suffering, but sometimes when we think we're helping them, we're not actually helping them (if they rely on us instead of facing their lives); we bear our share of responsibility for sometimes wanting to do too much for them, and we end up causing harm. Life is made up of trials, and nothing happens by chance, and sometimes we need to know how to let people find their own way without feeling inhumane or heartless... because it's for their own good! It's like saying "no" to a child: they won't be sad or resentful, they will learn, build themselves up, and grow!!
Let people own up to their choices.
I could keep talking like this for a long time, but I feel like I’m going off track or completely off topic! I was about to get carried away because I was thinking of a situation I experienced recently…

Why so many blocks?

• fear of disappointing
• fear of suffering
• fear of hurting the other partner
• fear of changing life's trajectory
• fear of getting attached
• Fear of having to make a choice and having to give up on another option—is this choice for the best? How does one give up?

lapse:

Fear of having to make a choice and having to give up on something else (rather than a choice)… when you have to make a choice and you’re not sure… blocks appear…

He said: Are we sure about the choice? Is it a good choice?

All of life is a matter of choice, and it begins with
THE PACIFIER, OR THE NIPPLE
and it ends with
THE OAK OR THE FIR

LOCKOUT
the fear of going (the action)
up to the rejection of any action, relationship, physical contact, or anything else.
the apprehension, the anxiety, and thus the feeling of being torn between going and not going
And for me, it can also determine health problems.
You have to overcome an emotional, relational, and sexual block.
You must open up to yourself and free the living being within you.

in brief
change the request to question oneself

to learn to overcome one’s inhibitions in order to lead a fulfilling life.

Nothing is ever finally settled.

It's just that nothing is definitively settled.

Indeed, the blocks come from attachment and doubt... but how hard it is to let them go! ;D We end up getting stuck on our own blocks, and it's the snake biting its own tail ;).

I think it takes a lot for one to end up getting stuck on one's own blocks… but I understand that perfectly.
Blockages do not arise from a whim, but from a very specific reason. That is the one you need to find, identify, and resolve.

Hi everyone!

The blockages lie in the unwillingness to go beyond or to try to break free from these imprints tied to the past.
And despite appearances, it should be known that many people dwell on memories of the past, not always the best ones, and that is where the word "blockage" takes on its full meaning.

Good evening to you
The magician.