frustration

People are coming to the chat

to express their inner turmoil

What's funny is

where men will expose their sexual deficiencies

others their anger toward the woman

Is that how things are

probably

Should we share today

what a woman might think of a man

or simply what she expects from a man

or of the idea she has of it

for man sometimes remains misguided with regard to our needs

Best regards

I was shocked to read this kind of remark on the chat

phil86: I have a problem, I feel like having sex

and at the same time blessed that he can share this on the chat anonymously without any violation whatsoever

for the man is unwell

and it's a fact

and the woman submits to it

It's another fact

Best regards

lolly

Everyone is entitled to your opinion.
You may be frustrated, but don't put all men in the same boat.
Ask Plutos why this affects you so much.

He's definitely a kid who thinks he's funny.

It does not represent the mass.

But if you feel better, try to make it look cute
That's your choice.

I agree with Lolly. I think men are in trouble because we submit to them; there is a huge gap between our expectations as women and what men desire!!!

It has absolutely nothing to do with it.

Have a nice day

price

For my part, I appreciate delicacy and wit, not fucking while speaking like this person, and I think that generally women want something else: attention, a light touch, vibrations—like a painting or music. Very few men know these notes!!!

Kisses, Lolly

price

Mr. Mystique,

You should probably review your spelling.

As for frustration, yours seems equal to you yourselves

And since I do not like to frustrate others, I invite you to reread my text.

It seems to me that your response is inappropriate, and I don't see who it is addressed to.

But I thank you for being consistent with my text on frustration in your words.

Peace be with you

Lolly

Kaina, the enchantress,

Man is the complement of woman.

Perhaps we should rewrite our mutual desires…

Thank you for lifting the veil on this matter.

kisses

lolly

YES, HERE IT IS, LOLLY, I LIKE IT A LOT, OUR MUTUAL DESIRES, REWRITE ALL OF THIS TO COMPLEMENT EACH OTHER

WHAT A BRILLIANT MIND, MY LOLLY, WHAT BEAUTIFUL LANGUAGE, ALL IN SUBTLETY

THANKS LOLLY

KISSES

KAINA

Hey!

A lively debate was starting to be in short supply around here!
Men's frustration, women's frustration,
What women expect from men that few know how to provide
What men expect from us and that we rarely give them,
There would be enough material to write an entire book on the subject.
As you so well put it, Princess Lolly, men and women are complementary,
That is why they are different, think differently, and act differently.

If men tried to understand how women work and women tried to understand how men work, that is when they would reach perfect agreement in respect of their differences.

Nice to meet you
Becs

Good evening, everyone,

Yesterday I came on the chat and I was also shocked by the remarks made by this man. Because this site is a forum for clairvoyance and esotericism, not a dating and debauchery site.

As my dear friend Lolly so aptly puts it, a question is asked, or he needs help, or he wants to express his state of mind—no problem—but for heaven's sake, a little consideration for women and for himself too.

Indeed, it would be good to have a discussion thread on the sexual needs of women and men, as men’s demands often exceed those of women. Of course, in terms and language that should not offend or irritate anyone’s sensibilities.

Respect is so important to us women, men, and people of all cultural, social, and other backgrounds.

With affection
Ladysally

Hello Lady!

Heehee! You were shocked by that gentleman's remarks!
Perhaps it is a lack of respect for the site, I admit.

But alongside this, these remarks clearly highlight the great difference between men and women:

Men call a cat a cat and do not dwell on the flourishes of a romantic, figurative language; they frankly admit their needs.

Women, even if deep down they feel the same need, will not say so; not only will most of them not admit it to their partner, but they will refuse to admit it to themselves.

If, between the two extremes, each person were to show a little more honesty or a little more respect, toward themselves and toward the other, how much simpler our relationships would be!

Friendship

Hello Mamy,

Yes, I was shocked hiihi when I saw those comments because they just came out of nowhere in the chat without it being a theme or a discussion thread, and it apparently seemed to be aimed at bothering everyone, including the site, I think.

The difference has been entrenched for a long time, but until we have had experiences, we cannot know, wearing blinders (just like me).

That is precisely what is troubling:
Men call a spade a spade and do not dwell on the flourishes of a romantic, flowery language; they frankly admit their needs. They believe they can take love, switch women according to their fantasies (love has no address, no contract, etc.), but love needs time, patience, friendship, and above all sincerity.

Women take great care not to frustrate their partner or spouse:
Women, even if deep down they feel the same need, will not say so; not only will most of them not admit it to their partner, but they will refuse to admit it to themselves.

That’s where I was heading: in love, there’s no contract or address, but that—yes, if we want to, we can:

If, between the two extremes, each person were to show a little more honesty or a little more respect, toward themselves and toward the other, how much simpler our relationships would be!

With affection
ladysally

Dear Mamyol,

It is not related to the message itself; it is about characterizing a physical need with the term "problem."

Sexuality is necessary not only for procreation but also for the production of hormones essential to the body's regeneration, and it allows the individual to release certain toxins (stress, etc.).

Of course, the ribald, the lewd, the bawdy can stimulate the senses, whether of a woman or a man; Balzac indulged in it with voluptuousness and zest…

Now it seems to me that labeling it as a problem and throwing it into the chat like a sudden urge to urinate removes any feminine desire to make a connection in that regard…

This clumsiness on both sides often creates a deep sense of malaise after the act of intercourse.

“Making love” encompasses several aspects; why reduce it to a single phrase?

THIS GENTLEMAN could have written this:

I am filled with desire, and I would love to breathe in the sensuality of a woman…

or simply “I feel like making love”

or, closer to his words, “I’d like to fuck”

But that's a far cry from saying

I have a problem...

not knowing how to shape one's carnal desire…

How many men will be able to talk about their desires without adding a touch of toilet talk?

There is a time for everything, and the fact that during the act one lets oneself go with naughty little words or more explicit ones is another stage and remains the intimate garden of two people…

Best regards

Lolly

LADY,

You are absolutely right, no more honesty

and of sincerity

You hit the nail on the head…

Are we truly honest?

What keeps us with a man?

P.S.: It's so good to see you again, girls!

Bec

Lolly

I just read your exchanges.
And what would happen if women used the same language as men? What would we be called?

Hello my beautiful lolly,

Are we really honest?

Not really!!! because we always need someone: to not be alone, for financial reasons, and for sex.

Why we are not honest: because few are willing to be alone, to suffer financial loss, out of fear of failure, and out of fear that he or she will leave.

We are all looking for something: each person seeks what they lack—love, money, the other person's time, and so on.

Well, I’m also happy to be back, in a rather detached tone and manner… the famous letting go, hehehehe.

Affectionately
Ladysally

Well, dear Loola, you don't have to look far, and I think everyone knows what we call women who dare to say and do what a man does, hihiihi.

lol girls!

One might ask oneself the question

Who is the pigeon in the story?

Perhaps a matter of position

Kama Sutra AZ

amused smiles

lolly

Thank you to Mr. Mystic Sage (lipstick)

How men will always let us shine…

Lol!

Lolly

Hey ma'am,

I felt it vibrate at the sight of the debate,

yeah yeah

I just wanted to tell you that I clearly noticed your little pleasure in your mind

Here's Lolly's return

There's no denying it

There is the low-end perfume and the perfume with precious essences.

a question of haute couture

and you are tucked away up top, miss

pou pou pi dou

That's for Lady, the sweetest little thing; I'm sure that when she says it, it makes the boy she loves feel a rush of excitement...

plus the starry girlies

Lolly