Friday evening thought

Good evening, everyone,

Let us help those who are suffering to realize that they are not alone. Let us speak to them about the suffering we have experienced or the traumas we may have gone through ourselves, and explain to them how we managed to overcome them.

Marylena

Dear Maryléna,

Those who are suffering prefer to be alone in their suffering... thus they know they are not bothering anyone. Because after a while, one learns to keep quiet so as not to be seen as complainers, pessimists, depressed... or some other 'external label'.

We all overcome our sorrows differently.

It is not someone else who erases a suffering on our behalf: it is ourselves. If we cannot do it, no one will be able to do it for us…

Once again, this is my personal opinion.

I am certain that each person must draw on themselves to achieve it.

Kisses
Loola

Good evening, Loola

I don't agree with you. Those who are in distress and don't want to share—well, I think they shouldn't complain if they want to remain alone, because everyone has the right to help, to support, to offer advice, and to provide comfort. But it's true that everyone does what they feel like, yet people shouldn't come complaining or whining when some say no one cares about me or takes an interest in me. There are so many people around us who are willing to sacrifice for others, like me and many others, such as on this site, which is full of compassion. But it's true that everyone has their free will; just look around you, look at life with fresh eyes, and you will see that the world is full of good things.
Big kisses
See you soon
Marylena

Hello again Marylena,

I wrote this post knowing full well what I was doing… and I didn’t expect people to actually agree with me.

Of course – and fortunately, moreover, that we have our free will, for we each have our own consciences – and all different. As we all lead our lives differently (but that falls within the private domain, which must be respected in addition).

Kisses

Loola

Dear Loola,

Yes, indeed, but you see, just the fact that you can reply to threads
of discussions is that somewhere you need to open up, to let go, and
It is something very precious to me, because apparently you need others, and I would be
I am still here, and everyone around you is also present for you; know that there is
There is always someone somewhere who is present and will help you.

Best regards
Big kisses
Marylena

Dear Marylena

Thank you for your post.

However, I wasn't thinking about myself at all when I wrote it; I was thinking about people I had been around in the past. Or even after exchanges with people in my real life.

As for me, regarding my life, I prefer not to talk about it on the forum anymore.

Kisses
Loola

loola

It’s good to think of others, I understand that and I continue to do so. I know about you, especially on the forum, but I am still here. However, you know, on the forum you can meet other different people who can also help you. We are not all the same; each of us has a gift, an idea, a love, and advice that are different from others. So, you know, you can still go on the site; I am sure you can meet more wonderful people. And I truly wish that for you; you deserve it.
kisses
Marylena

Thank you, Marylena.

However, I have my own personal reason for no longer wanting to do it.

No one knows what I deserve, not even myself.

Kisses
Loola

Dear Loola,

You know how I see things; every human being is important to me, and as long as I can help, even if they hurt me, I will be there for them.

I wish you all the best, my beautiful
Marylena

Dear Marylena,

Thank you for your message. I replied to you via a private message. I will not say anything more on the forum regarding myself.

All the best,

Loola