Hello,
Right now, things aren't going very well in my relationship. He wanted us to get back together, but now he's started using drugs again, so...
I’d like to know if it’s worth continuing; I love him, but he makes me suffer too much.
And there, at the end of the third reading, because if I understood correctly, you should only ask one question for all the cards?
I am not reassured at all:
16 7 16 13
Please help me see this a bit more clearly.
I would like to have some additional information about the reading
Machine translation.
Hello Marie,
In this context, I would frankly tell you that, despite the love you have for this person, it is not worth continuing, as it involves a situation of hardships you have to endure due to these people’s addictions, whether to drugs, alcohol, or other substances, and this can have repercussions on your life, in terms of your relationship, aggressiveness, finances, etc.
We need to present him with a fait accompli and ensure he has the means to undergo a detoxification program.
Best regards
The magician.
Good evening,
I thank Lemagicien for his quick response. I admit I suspected this answer, but I have been in tears for a week because having to spend the New Year holidays alone again, out of shame about letting anyone notice, is hard to get through, not to mention the two abortions I had to go through on my own. The worst part is that for the second one, I saw that he had been chatting lovingly with another girl, and my abortion lasted over an hour and a half of suffering, imagining my baby clinging to me (I had the abortion right at the legal limit in France). And then he blames me for killing our baby…
I want to die. I should never have gotten back together with him because it brought back my pain…
Good evening, Marie,
Know that we are all with you and that we won't let you down; you can contact me, as well as the other members, whenever you wish!
Do not feel guilty or ashamed for others' mistakes, as you have absolutely nothing to reproach yourself for!
We all love you and we support you.
Kisses
The magician.
Good evening, Marie,
Keep in mind that no one has the right to make you suffer that much; even if you love them, they don’t deserve your love…
I wish you a lot of courage and that you make good decisions.
biz
Good evening, Marie,
I sympathize with your pain, and above all, do not blame yourself. Love is not something you can control. You gave him the best of yourself, so if you must move on, do so without regret or reproach. Your baby is an angel, and you did nothing but protect him from an unpleasant future. You acted as a responsible mother because you are a mother. Be proud of yourself, hold your head high, and move forward without shame. You have only ever given love. It is now time for you to take charge of your life and grant yourself happiness—you deserve it. Cry it out, then get back on your feet.
Sending you my best thoughts. Kiss
Marie, why weren't you answering, Amandine said on the chat, you don't dare.
Good evening Amandine,
I didn't know my message had been posted in the chat. I'm ashamed of what's happening to me, but I admit that receiving support does me the most good, even though I cry every time. I don't know who I'm supposed to reply to because I can't see your name/the chat. Help me!
I was waiting for you on the CHT Marie, you know why, didn't you dare
AMANDINE
Good evening Marie,
First of all, I would like you to know that you are not alone here and that you can count on me; I will be there to provide moral support and advice to the best of my ability.
You shouldn't feel guilty about any of this, because an abortion is better than subjecting that little one to years of hell, and you would also have put your own life at risk. If things are going well with your friend, that's good; if not, you'll each go your separate ways without having a child who would be a burden for both of you.
You are young and will still be able to have another child in another relationship, in a better setting to welcome this little baby.
I'm sending you a kiss, and feel free to come see me on my MSN or in the "Outstretched Hand" section whenever you like.
Best regards
Ladysally
Hello Marie,
I just read your post, and it is obvious to me that you have nothing to reproach yourself for, because indeed, if you hadn't done it, your two little ones would have suffered serious consequences!!
Besides, you need to know that at the stage you did it, they were not yet fetuses but only embryos!! Even if he blames you, you have to be strong and not listen to him!!
You made this decision with a clear conscience; it is a good, responsible, and well-considered decision.
When it will be your turn to meet your soulmate, the real one, not the one who makes you suffer, then you will have a better life and you will have the chance to bring a beautiful baby into the world and you will be able to give it the love that you were not able to give to the other two, and you will then understand that you had made the right choice!!
In any case, we are all here with you!!
I hope you make the right choice regarding your relationship and that you recover very quickly from all your suffering!!
I'm hugging you very tightly
P.S.: Please don't make the big mistake you were talking about, because he would just go on with his life and it would change nothing for either him or you. Stay strong, beautiful Marie!!
Gaëlle
HELLO MARIE
You cling to your own happiness or to his, having wanted to give him a child. Lost in the darkness, you disintegrate. Your way of loving and acting is influenced by marginal figures. They are upon you like occult forces, dragging you along. Too many impulses; you let yourself be carried away again. There will be misunderstandings; strange events will follow one after another. You persist and sign. You must be careful; you have learned nothing yet. People will follow, will pass through, and disappear. Ephemeral loves based on sudden attractions; they will not last.
Make your reality be prudent, do not make mistakes anymore, there is a guide, an advisor, is it a friend? A doctor of the soul.
You will receive enlightened warnings, so go your own way. Wait until the sun is at its zenith, and your love will shine. Stop abusing your feelings; there is only the truth that is being told to you.
SUMMER IS COMING, SEASON, YOU HAVE ENCOUNTERED IT ONCE. ANOTHER SUMMER, AND THIS TIME IT WILL BE OFFERED TO YOU, AND YOU WILL NOT BE DISAPPOINTED. PICK UP THE THOUGHT. YOU HAVE BEEN PATIENT. THE DEADLINE HAS PASSED. THE IDEA OF A DOCTOR OF THE SOUL. HIS FEELINGS ARE UNCERTAIN. NO TRUTH. NO LOVE. NEVER ALL WHITE. NEVER ALL BLACK. TRUE OR FALSE. WHAT YOU ASSUME. WHAT YOU HOPE. AND THERE IS THE TRUE TRUTH. GO AND DO NOT DECEIVE YOURSELF. YOU WILL NEED TO HEAL. TO CLOSE THE WOUND. WILL IT EVER BE?
AMANDINE
MARIE
I spent a good part of it trying to clarify your problem.
I HAVE TO TELL YOU ACTUALLY... YOU ARE LISTENING VERY WELL TO WHAT IS HAPPENING TO YOU. BUT THERE IS A DENIAL, YOU SAY NO, NO, AND NO, YOU KEEP SAYING NO, NO... WHY
WHAT CAN'T YOU CHANGE. FORGET YOUR CHILDHOOD AND JOIN THE ADULTS.
A NEGATION THAT PREVENTS ME FROM COMMUNICATING WITH YOU..
AMANDINE