how to tell the truth..

Hello everyone

I am reviving an old discussion thread that I think will interest the members

Telling the truth is not always easy. What do you think?

The truth is interesting if it serves to think, otherwise it is useless. A truth is good if the person who chooses to speak it is in total respect of the other, and does not simply say what they think.
Being sincere is not an argument in itself.
Sincerity can also be a selfish feeling, an alibi, one that relieves only the one who states the said truth.
When someone asks you to tell them the truth, how can you be sure that the person is ready to hear it? It is better to be clear about your intentions before letting yourself go with a truth that can be just as healing as it is devastating…

Marylena

Hello Maryléna,

I had started a thread about the truth… and now you’re picking it up.

Some people do not tell the truth because they do not even think they are required to; because they believe they have nothing to answer for; because the other person is completely indifferent to them…

I believe that telling the truth doesn’t leave the other person hanging in doubt… It’s better to say it, even if it hurts, than to leave room for hope, which doesn’t exist anyway…

Silences… are not good… it means that this person has nothing to say… and therefore there is no longer any room for hope.

ClaudiaC

Hi,

For me, the truth can sometimes be a luxury that is not always within reach…

I have respect for a man who represents my best friend, my confidant.
He knows everything about me. Today, for no reason, I’m no longer hearing from him.
I could go see him, but I’m afraid he’ll reject me, afraid of the explanation, and I’d rather hope it’s just temporary…

This truth represents a luxury I would not want to know.

kiss

Good evening

I am copy-pasting the words that the wizard had said.
And I would say that I would also share my opinion later.

All times, everyone has always believed they possessed the truth and knowledge.
Many truths only lead us to seek to be right, even when we are wrong.
The most beautiful truth is the one we believe in, whether it stems from philosophy, spirituality, our convictions, or otherwise, which leads me to say that each person holds their own truth.

Kisses
The magician.

Thank you, magician (I’ve resumed your discussion)

Marylena

Hi,

It is true that everything depends on which truth we are hiding, and we must ask ourselves whether, for us, it causes us suffering or causes the other person suffering. It is always difficult to make a decision such as telling the truth, but know that over time, the truth always comes to light in one way or another... Everything eventually becomes known, and it is true that fear can overwhelm us at the thought of the truth, but we must move forward; time will bring calm once the truth has been told.
And then there is the truth we don't say out of love, so as not to hurt the other person or those around us, because sometimes it is not necessary to say it, but we always come back to saying that everything is known and that one day the truth will come to light.

affectionately

Marylena

hi

I prefer to know the truth… simply because that way things are clear…
with all the unspoken things… everything always remains vague.

ClaudiaC

Hi claudiac

Of course, we all like to know the truth, but unfortunately, it’s not easy for everyone to tell it for various reasons, and even when the truth is told, things may not get better—or the opposite may happen. But anyway, you’re right, we all prefer the truth.

A question, Claudiac, in the general world we live in, where the truth is spoken no matter what, and we come back to previous discussions: between governments and religion, who is wrong and who is right?

affectionately

Marylena

Hi,

I don't think the truth is always good, Claudia C.

I loved a guy for 8 years, he never said “I love you” to me, but he always had loving behaviors.

One day in a fit of anger, he told me he had never loved me and that it had all been a bluff.
Sorry, but his gestures speak to me even more than his words...

kiss

Good evening,

And what are the lies that surround us, stemming from the political world and also from religion, which we discussed previously, that do not tell the truth? We live in a world of lies; now, telling the truth—I am speaking of the current world—is forbidden, because people might revolt, be led to war, or other things might happen.
And from a personal standpoint, yes, Claudia, we all love the truth, but sometimes we don’t want to cause pain; it all depends on the context.
As Yerly says, sometimes it’s better to stay silent, but everything comes to light sooner or later.
There is still a lot to discuss on that.

Good evening

Marylena

Hello Yerly,

I know, Yerly, we all have our opinions about the truth… I prefer to know it rather than see the exact opposite in actions…

And when I see that the actions don't match what I'm being told, it's over for me anyway... I know the truth isn't there...

ClaudiaC