Too much money wasted!

Hello,

For my part, I unfortunately lost a lot of money with clairvoyance by phone! I was feeling very bad and I called a lot to reassure myself… There was even a psychic who kept me on the phone and asked me to concentrate, and she didn’t speak, I was waiting! When I told her that I had to let her go, she scolded me, saying that if I kept interrupting her all the time, she wouldn’t be able to achieve anything, and she also told me that she saw an influx of money coming in and that this was why she felt justified in insisting!
This cash inflow was nothing more than my 13th month salary at the end of the year, and I could have afforded a lot of things with all the money I lost! It served as a lesson for me, especially since nothing has happened yet!
Watch out, call once but not all the time like me!

kitty

Hello Kitty, I have only ever given money to a psychic once (ten years ago!). I had just tried it out of curiosity and to reassure myself in the feeling that most people who do this remotely and for a very high price are exploiters of the weaknesses and distress of those who consult them.
In some African or Middle Eastern countries, the psychic or medium consults for a small offering or a small gift of any kind, as some cultures say that if someone has this gift, they should only use it for good purposes.
For me, the taste for clairvoyance and esotericism must remain a pleasure, a hobby, and not a crutch.

Good luck!
Natouchka

Hello Kitty,

Thank you for starting this debate; until now, I did not dare to speak freely about it on the forum, and I am quite confused. that I will bring water to your mill. I know that our friends (female) members will read me without passing judgment, and I assume we will understand.
Indeed, you are right; clairvoyance by phone (without credit card) at 0.34 euros per minute is horribly expensive.
Like you, I have been in pain for weeks, even months, over a romantic situation that preoccupies me and causes me suffering, but it also causes my son suffering, as he sees me in this distress every day.
One day, I was drawn to an ad in a TV program that read “free clairvoyance without credit card.” Given my financial situation, which prevented me from affording a consultation, I let myself be swept up by this system.
Like you, I had communications with psychics to whom I invariably asked the same questions.
On a scale of 10 psychics for a subject ratio, 8 told me the same thing: that events were temporarily blocking the way, but that soon everything would turn out for the best. The other 2 were much more direct, and I would even say blunt, telling me I should not expect much positive, that there was no hope.
Like you, I assume, I held on to the predictions of the 8s, but seeing nothing coming, I called, called, and called again.
In conclusion, a lot of money has been spent through the phone bill; as of today, I feel as if it were the first day of my first call. I am disappointed and sad.
I think that many people who practice this phone consultation system have certainly found a good way to make money. At present, there is dreadful suffering, accompanied by great loneliness. So generally, what motivates people like you or me in search of support and answers? For many people, it is the suffering related to feelings; for others, the suffering related to illness; and for some, the suffering related to financial and professional problems. This also reminds me of the press article published on Voyance AZ about a psychic from Lyon who demanded an exorbitant amount from a woman worried about her husband’s health.
Of course, I have already heard that it is up to those seeking this kind of consultation to be reasonable so as not to be drawn into this spiral, but what to do when our situations do not improve? Should we impose a mental rigor on ourselves so as not to fall into this trap? A friend told me this morning, and perhaps rightly, that it is not psychics and cards that decide for you; you have your free will to make your choices. Perhaps she is right!!! But when we love (when we wish to fulfill ourselves emotionally), when we fight for those we love (illness), when we fight to find solutions to get out of financial and professional trouble, and when for most people things worsen rather than improve, how can we manage all of this?
I wish you a lot of courage and sincerely hope that your situation improves for your happiness (I read your message on the forum).
Kind regards
Josy

It's regrettable, but these stories are truly legion.

I would never advise approaching someone anonymously in the “Recommended for You” section http://www.voyance-az.com/article-14-nested-0-0.html You can discover the story of a person who was literally scammed and ruined by a high-profile clairvoyance service.

Nothing protects against scams, neither the internet nor in-person meetings.

Be careful; just like with a plumber or a locksmith, you absolutely need to find someone in your circle who knows an honest person.

Indeed, if you feel the need to consult online, it’s like a casino: don’t use your credit card, or at least set yourself a maximum amount not to exceed.

As for free of charge, I am not convinced that clairvoyance MUST be free, even though I think it is good that people are alive, after all, this allows her to spend more time doing it and therefore provide more service.

What matters is the way it’s done. Indeed, when I see psychics, charlatans, and mediums who charge astronomical sums for certain “services,” I am truly shocked.

I completely agree with you both! To get back to Josy’s story, I am unfortunately in the same situation as you, as I am still just as unhappy, and I also think that calling those psychics gave me hope, and perhaps my situation would be different today if I had only listened to my intuition! Because the psychics I used to call told me there were no other women, and I, without knowing it, was sure there were, and I was not wrong! A new year is beginning and I do not want it to unfold like the last one, because unfortunately I no longer know what happiness means with the person I love! For my part, I have blocked all my phone lines so that when I am in distress, I can no longer call those psychics! The last ones I called certainly predicted that he had someone (which I already knew, fortunately), but that he would not stay with her, and that for the moment things would not improve! I no longer know what to think! I also asked free questions online and they all were strangely similar! I cannot say that I no longer believe in clairvoyance, but in my case, I prefer to rely on my heart and my intuition (even if it is telling me nothing at the moment)!
To answer Tom, I completely agree that psychics should be paid for what they do, as they need to make a living, but one must be honest! I had another experience with a psychic who asked me to call her on a different number because she had to go into a special room, and that number cost more than double a normal consultation! Then she told me she could help me, and that to do so, I had to either call her on that very expensive number every day, or at least two to three times a week for a minimum of 20 minutes, or that she could do it with tools that would have cost me the modest sum of 2,500 Swiss francs! When I told her that my finances did not allow it, she insisted, saying that in any case, love was far more important than money, and so on... Fortunately, I refused, but the damage is done, and I am currently paying for those bills very dearly! NEVER AGAIN WILL I MAKE THIS MISTAKE! Calling for a question once is fine, but one must be reasonable!

Good luck to all the unhappy people in search of answers…

Kitty

Hello, do you know that a serious psychic knows the celestial law? For the crooks, one must not forget that a psychic may be in the light or in the darkness, but they cannot serve both. To the psychics who have ambitions, I can assure you that they will pay dearly for it, sooner or later.

Rolande 2311

I’ve consulted too, again and again. I’ve spent a fortune. When the fateful dates came and nothing happened, I’d start over, until the next deadline. I eventually came to understand that we are the sole masters of our own happiness and future. I no longer consult (almost) anymore. I’m (almost) healed. Kisses to everyone

The risk with clairvoyance and this “easy” clairvoyance is becoming addicted. Indeed, in difficult moments, we refuse to live in the present, and clairvoyance is a way to project ourselves forward… But above all, it is a way to escape and not accept a temporarily painful reality.

Although this goes against the site and clairvoyance in general, I speak out against this type of practice and especially want to warn everyone to be very vigilant regarding instruments of the future.

One must not overdo it and understand that manipulating destiny and performing clairvoyance is, above all, about invoking powers and asking them to take an interest in us, for a moment.

It is delusional to imagine that these powers will bother themselves every four minutes for us!!! especially to answer the same question 46 times!

I have warned several people on the site, and I find it terribly unhealthy that some people abuse the free readings… I have a moral dilemma about this and wonder why some people draw the same Jeopardy multiple times a day…

I’m actually thinking of a way to limit the questions…

Tom, I would like you to be more explicit regarding the abuse? What do you mean?

Thank you
Rolande

For Tom and Rolande.
I think Tom means that using clairvoyance too often is not a good idea. For example, drawing the cards too often.
A psychic once told me… to come back only every two years.
She also told me that the card reading is like a transfer of energy.

Tom, I don't think we'd want to project ourselves into the future at all costs. Just to test the waters... Maybe just to understand a few key facts of life. During a particularly difficult period.
I would say to look for a glimmer of hope somewhere before turning to a psychologist…

I agree that we are the masters of our destiny... but if there are several people to think about... it's more difficult. And our instinct doesn't necessarily tell us what another person is thinking 300 km / 2000 km away...
If I listened to my heart… it would cause too much pain to too many people…

See you soon, ClaudiaC

I stated that some people abuse the free readings, some users perform multiple readings per day, I do not think that this is a good thing, that it completely distorts the message of the cards…

We inevitably lose all sense of the future and the very essence of cards!

In my opinion, clairvoyance is not a therapy; one should consult occasionally, someone who receives few clients and appears balanced. Word of mouth is important in that case; one must also live one’s life, take one’s destiny into one’s own hands, and rely above all on oneself.

Sharon

Good evening, Sharon,

You are absolutely right, we must rely on ourselves and, above all, believe in ourselves. Even if fate does not favor us, we must take charge of our lives and love ourselves in order to be able to love and understand others. Nevertheless, we can seek advice from psychics during difficult times.

I also take this opportunity to thank Tom for emphasizing the intensive use of cards. He is right; cards must be used with wisdom and discernment. Like others, I was seeking answers during difficult times and, of course, I hoped they would be positive, and I found myself using them frequently. I quickly realized that this was not good and that the answers from the cards were evasive. Hence, disappointments and unnecessary stress.

Hello, I agree with all of you. Whether it is the so-called psychics or others, they know well that when we turn to them, it is because we are in distress and that we have tried on our own before consulting them. It is a bit of our last ray of hope after setbacks. It is also true that I often do free readings several times a day, as if something would change from one to the next. I believe that one can become "addicted"!!! Yet I have always thought that we have the life we make for ourselves, in relation to our choices and with the rigor of our values, the concessions we can afford and those that would destroy us and that we cannot afford. But now I no longer understand. Life has always been a war in a way. We were leading it together, supporting each other. Then an accident killed him. A year later, I was immobilized by an accident. It was necessary to give confidence to the children and in the midst of all this there are the profiteers, the false friends, the deceptions, the lies. No matter how much I try to make things move, look for work, do work at home, manage everything as best as I can, it is as if everything is going off the rails. Because not everything depends on me, I know what I can do, it is when it depends on other people that things do not go well. I end up wondering if it is me, the others, or a higher power that makes nothing move, if everything is going wrong. And if it is a blockage, it has been going on for 4 years, if it will change, hence my interest in free readings. Because waiting wears you out, not knowing wears you out, trials wear you out, and one needs a little hope.
Good luck to everyone. As they say, the wheel turns.
KISSES

Hello Yeuxpers,

I read your message with great interest, and then with emotion.

Everything you describe, I have experienced it just like you, and I am still living it just like you.
I am sorry to see that life has not spared you either.

Like you, I lost my husband to leukemia, and time has passed; it has already been twelve years. From a life shared in love as a couple, we found ourselves overnight alone, having to take on the roles of mother and head of the family. All of this in the face of the total indifference and hypocrisy of the people around us, who are supposed to provide the comfort that would be legitimate in such circumstances. It is also distressing to realize that we are surrounded by freeloaders—so-called friends who do not hesitate to denigrate us with lies, which I have experienced too—and by people who timidly try to comfort you while being uncomfortable because they do not know how to behave with a grieving widow, and because death disturbs them in some way. It is awful, but that has been the case since the world began.

We are desperately trying to get back on our feet, and every time we overcome one barrier, another one appears.

Naturally, we turn to clairvoyance, hoping to finally find answers and comfort, but once again, disappointment. We search, we are in quest of answers, but nothing comes. And as you say so well, this wears us down; time passes, passes quickly like our youth, and we still try to look toward the horizon to see if we can glimpse even a thread of hope.

Friends, today we must look at life differently, live each passing day to the fullest, and be philosophical. What has helped me is my spirituality; thanks to it, I was able to keep my head above water and avoid sinking. Perhaps reading what I have just said about spirituality will initially seem flat and not immediately resonate with you, but later, when you reflect on it, you will see some doors of hope open. Believe me, it helps. We must elevate ourselves as much as possible in order to distance ourselves as much as possible from earthly baseness.

I was delighted to meet you on the forum and hope to have the pleasure of reading your posts soon.

I wish you good luck

See you soon

Thank you JOSY,

I can see that you understand. That inner coldness that never leaves us, the pleasure of before, happiness, and the fear and emptiness ahead. I don’t know about you, but what worries me most is making mistakes, not making the right choices, even though we know very well that we are always alone when it comes to our choices, yet we are not alone in bearing the consequences, since everything that affects us also affects our children. I had never been afraid in my life before; he was always there, like a rock, and we always faced things together. Now, I am almost always afraid. I have lost confidence in myself and in my judgment. I failed to see the interest, the vice, the malice in men, or even in certain women around me. And yet I should have; I saw it, I noticed it, but it still amazes me every time. I tell myself, no, it’s not possible, it’s really too twisted. But in the end, one has to be wary of everyone, owe nothing, ask for nothing. Are you alone too, and how do you manage so that it doesn’t weigh on you too much? Taking each day as it comes is good, but do we no longer have the right to be completely happy like before? I think we do. We owe it to ourselves, at least. The hardest part, I think, is finding the right person. Sorting things out. What do you think about reincarnation? Do you believe in it?
Thank you for your response; it puts things in perspective to know that we are not alone in this situation, although in a way I would have preferred to be. It is something I wish on no one, the loss of a loved one.
See you soon, I hope, good luck to you,
Friendship

EYEPERS

To bow

Would it be possible in this new year
To bow
Before the easy and the difficult
Before the marvelous and the revolting
Before his brother and before his enemy
Before the one who has harmed us
And before the One who has enriched us?
To bow without surrendering
To bow
To recover more effectively
Just bow
Under the light or heavy weight of life

To bow
Like a bamboo under the snow

Pierre Philippon