Words of Mother Teresa

The greatest suffering is to feel alone, without love, abandoned by everyone.

Mother Teresa

Marylena

Hello my beautiful Marylena,
Yes, Mother Teresa is quite right; when there is no love, one feels truly alone and abandoned.
Gros bisou

Hello, beautiful

Kisses to you too, but here on the site, it’s a love site, isn’t it, and we’re never alone

Good evening

Marylena

HIHI WHO ARE YOU TALKING TO, MY BEAUTIFUL ONE? THERE ARE MORE THAN 20,000 MEMBERS, UNLESS WE ARE ALONE IN SOUL AND HEART, IN WHICH CASE EVEN THE MOST POPULATED PLACES ON EARTH WOULD BE NO MAN'S LAND.
Big kiss to you!!

Hello my beautiful Mamyol, and so finish what you started, no but hiihi. Did you have internet problems or something!!! It happens to more people.
Gros bisou

Hihi, loneliness doesn't exist, as the song says
Proof we're discussing on forum threads, we're not alone, damn it

Kisses to you, my beautiful lady

Marylena

There are many more opportunities for social interaction than before; we have the internet, fax, and phone, and especially MSN, so if we are still lonely, it’s because we want to be.
Gros bisou

Hi girls!

In your opinion, would the crowd protect one from loneliness?
I don't believe that; quite the opposite, it's simply a lie.
Besides, in my opinion, there is no worse solitude than feeling alone in the middle of a crowd.
All too often this has happened to me, and I am not talking about a crowd of strangers, but about feeling horribly lonely in the midst of my loved ones.

On the other hand, I just got back from a vacation that I chose to spend alone in the mountains; well, there, facing the sky and the elements alone, in the sole company of myself, I have never felt so lonely, quite the opposite. Finding myself face to face with myself, the encounter of my self with my ego in the midst of the immensity, was something extraordinary.

It is not the number of people around us that makes us not feel alone; it is the relationship we have or do not have with ourselves, the way we accept or do not accept ourselves, the way we love ourselves.

Besides, that being my opinion and binding only me, I believe that we will never succeed in any relationship with anyone (romantic or friendly) if we first fail to succeed in the relationship with ourselves.

First, one must succeed in doing this: accepting oneself, loving oneself, ensuring that one's self is in harmony with one's ego. And only after that, when it becomes automatic and constant, can one build solidly. Otherwise, if one anticipates, there will always be a moment when one blames one's relationship for the "flaw" one finds in one's self or ego.
Only harmony with oneself, and not the company of others, can allow one to never feel alone.

Kisses to the beauties

Hello, beauties,
Actually, I’m the opposite; I can’t find the calm and solitude needed to truly reconnect with myself or focus on my inner self, hehe.
That even if there are crowds, means of communication, or if we are truly isolated from everything, it is finding each other, loving each other, and getting to know each other that matters most, and that is the means that is lacking for me.
I am constantly being asked for things by my children, my body parts, my friends, my family, my man, and my cats.
Without even mentioning the paperwork, the obligations, etc.
So what does loneliness, isolation, mean? It’s a whole debate and it depends on the case.
Gros bisous

Hmm, Mamyol, I completely agree with you.

Sometimes we are surrounded by a crowd but we feel alone! Why? Simply because we don't feel in harmony with them! There's just no connection!
You see? I’m going on a three-week vacation and I’m going to see my sister in the mountains, in Haute-Savoie! I can’t wait, I only have two more days of work before I catch the plane on Saturday, and I’m definitely going to recharge in nature and rediscover the taste and pleasure of flavors, scents, and silence!!! No phone, no internet! Just enjoying the elements of nature and reconnecting with myself!
When you say, if I’m not mistaken, that you have to love yourself before loving others! (uhh, like you didn’t say that lol but it just came to me) hihi well it’s true!!! when we accept ourselves as we are and love ourselves, positive things will come to us! yeah, easy to say but it’s actually true!

Alright! It’s well past time for me to head to bed because I’m having trouble getting up with just 2 days left before my vacation! It’s really dragging on! But I’m glad we could chat about this topic!
I wish you all a sweet night filled with lovely dreams

Kisses

Mimi

Hello, little one

If I haven’t mentioned starting by loving yourself before loving others, it’s because I’ve already said and repeated that many times on other threads, and I wouldn’t want to come across as a senile chatterbox! Lol!
But I did speak of "the way we love each other"; the "we" being implied.

Happy holidays in Haute-Savoie. Don't overdo the cheese! Lol!
And above all, make the most of the elements and of yourself.

Kisses