Strange dreams * * * ok

Hello Ladysally and Mamyol,

I am happy to see you again after the issues the site has had.

The reason I am writing to you today is that for several days I have been having strange dreams.

1. When I talk to a person, their face changes and I continue my conversation with a new person. This only happens with people I know or have known in the past.

2. I can be dressed from another era while living my current life, and I can be in another era while dressed as we are today. Everything intertwines.

I realize that I only dream when I wake up. I am exhausted.

What does that mean?

@micalement.

Good evening, my dear Loreena,
If I may say so, I think you're not living at the right time.
A disconnect with people and situations, with the times. Not in the right place and not with the right people.
You are overwhelmed by events, situations, and especially by people who are never as you think or as you see them.
Best regards
Ladysally

Good evening, Ladysally.

Thank you for your reply.

Your response moves me deeply, because once, a friend told me that I spoke as if I didn’t belong to our current era, as if I spoke like someone from another time.

It is true that I have not felt in my place since birth. Where could this come from???

And right now, a lot of people are disappointing me; it’s hard for people to understand me, and I easily lose my footing in certain situations.

Is there a solution for all of this to work out???

@micalement.

Hello Loreena,

You're very welcome!!!

It’s true that you’re not the only one in that situation, because right now we’re all living through a strange time when it’s not easy to get by or to understand people’s mindset.

Unfortunately, I am not a psychologist, as I would have liked to help others. I am limited in dream interpretation and beyond.

Maybe do some self-work, or let go… or put things in perspective and form an opinion. In the vein that everyone is the way they are, that we’re not perfect, that times are tough for everyone, that we no longer trust anyone, that it’s a world of individualists, and that everyone preaches to their own choir, etc. And when you take all that into account, I think you understand others and yourself better.

See what calms you, helps you, and set the superfluous aside without trying to understand, because sometimes there is no explanation.

Kisses

Hello Ladysally.

It's not always easy to let go…

And as for trust, some people have let me down so much that today I only trust myself. That way, no more unpleasant surprises. When you’re very sensitive, it’s better to protect yourself.

Thank you for your reply.

@micalement.

Kisses.

Hello, my beautiful.
Yes, as I was saying, you are sensitive, so try to protect yourself, leave the unnecessary things aside, and don't try to understand people, because life and people are not easy, and no one will hold it against you for that.
Kisses
Ladysally

Hello,
Good evening, beautiful Lady, and good evening, Loreena,

First of all, Lady, don't worry, I'm not here to interfere with your translation: it's been far too long since I've done any, I was just passing through, and since I'm not at home, I don't have any reference materials.

So I read it, and I, who when I was covering your shift would never have dared to offer an opinion without consulting my dictionary, immediately, it evoked the various facets of personality. Loreena, do you have a hard time positioning yourself in relation to yourself?

Yes, my journey over these two years away from AZ has reinforced the idea that what we seek in others is what we believe or wish to be, just as what we dislike in them is what we dislike in ourselves.
I have also learned that one must know how to accept and, above all, love oneself as one is.

And, Lady, I agree with you on letting go, which is my daily motto.
As for trust, you must start by trusting yourself.

Well, I hope I haven’t unsettled you with my intervention; if I have, I apologize.

With my regards, kisses to you both

Good evening Mamyol,

Your intervention does not destabilize me at all.

To answer your question: Yes!!! Everything is slipping away from me these days, not to mention that many people have let me down. I’ve lost confidence in myself. It’s all very recent. I no longer know what to do, and letting go won’t be easy.

If you have any ideas, please don't hesitate.

@micalement.

Kisses to you two.

Re Loreena,
Letting go, if my memory serves me right, I had already talked about it on the site a long time ago, but not being able to find the topic to include the link, here is what remains displayed for me, or rather, I have taken it up phrase by phrase, which I put on small slips of paper that I hand out to pick from during workshops I lead, because depending on our state of the day, one suits us better, and rather than taking everything in as a whole, which could be heavy all at once, it is better to work on the phrase picked that day. Because the second, or the first and main one of my doctrines, is Just for Today which I had already talked about a lot.

Letting go is not being indifferent, but simply admitting that one cannot act on behalf of someone else.

Letting go is not being passive, but rather drawing a lesson from the consequences inherent in an event.

Letting go is not about cutting ties, but about realizing that we cannot control others.

Letting go is not about blaming or trying to change others, but about giving your best.

Letting go is not about taking care of others, but about feeling concerned for them.

Letting go is not about standing by, but about encouraging.

Letting go is not about judging, but about granting others the right to be human.

Letting go is not about dealing with everything that happens, but about letting others manage their own destiny.

Letting go is not coddling others, but allowing them to face reality.

Letting go is not rejecting; it is, on the contrary, accepting.

Letting go is not about nagging, preaching, or scolding, but about trying to identify one's own weaknesses and overcome them.

Letting go is not about bending things to your own desires, but about taking each day as it comes and appreciating it.

Letting go is not about criticizing or correcting others, but about striving to become what we dream of becoming.

Letting go is not about fearing the past, but about living and growing for the future.

Letting go is recognizing one's powerlessness, meaning that the final outcome is not in our hands.

Letting go is fearing less and loving more.

May all of this help you.

Friendship

Hello my beautiful mommy,
Welcome to the forum. No, your intervention does not unsettle me.
Here, you advise on letting go and having self-confidence, which is very good.
Big kisses

Thank you so much, girls.

Kisses to you both.

Big hugs to you too.
Lady