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A recurring dream

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Hello everyone,

Today I am here to try to tell you about the dream my friend David has been having for several years, following a breakup.
Indeed, about ten years ago, he was engaged to a young woman named Nadine. A few days before their wedding, she left him to be with David’s best friend, and they never saw each other again, as some time later David moved to a completely different region to start over and “try” to forget.
Since then, once or twice a month, he has the same dream, in color: he is in a city completely unknown to him and keeps walking and walking through the streets in search of that woman, but he never finds her.
Subconsciously, I believe he still has affection for her, even love, despite his claims to the contrary and his insistence that he has moved on from that relationship after so many years.
Could you tell me what you think about this, and whether I should help him find this woman (even at the risk of losing him if she is truly his happiness) so that he can stop having this dream, which really puts him in a daze and makes him very uncomfortable the following morning?
Unless there is another meaning or a way to help that I haven't thought of.
Thank you in advance to all who would be willing to help me interpret this, or perhaps even find a solution, so that neither of us has to suffer from this uncontrollable situation anymore.
fgmimi

Hello Fgmimi,

To dream of a city, in this sentimental context, means that your friend David should give up pursuing his goals regarding Nadine.
Walking the streets is a sign of change…
I have the impression that, unconsciously, he has failed to accept this betrayal by his best friend; he is trying to find out why. His recurring dream resembles a latent, unwanted act of revenge, which explains his altered state upon waking.
We must surround her with love and affection, because this unconscious search is also linked to the fear of being the victim of a new betrayal!

See you soon
The magician.

Hello Fgmimi,
When I read all these dreams… it hits me in my own experience… for the past few months.
I understand your feelings and what you are feeling about your friend.
I think he has indeed put everything into your relationship, and a huge point: he fell in love...
Unfortunately, dear Fgmimi… the unconscious is very powerful… I am experiencing this harshly myself… no matter how hard we try to move on after a breakup… the unconscious never forgets… it is a way of processing what has been experienced.
I don't know — I really don't want to hurt you… but try talking to your friend… ask him what he would want most in the world…
I had a similar experience to your friend's...
So if you want me to help you... I've learned things from both sides, and you can reach out to me here or via DM.
ClaudiaC

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