Love, obviously, what else?

Good evening, The Magician,

I am Mel, born on March 14, 1976, and he is Tim, born on July 1, 1980. We do not live in France.

I have been separated from my husband for about 7 months after 10 years of marriage, and I have a 9-year-old daughter.
Tim, for his part, is coming out of a draining two-year relationship. No children.

Our relationship is bumpy and fraught with obstacles, but we’ve held on so far despite the rather intense external pressures (jealousy, intrusive exes…). Just as lost as each other, it seems we “recognize” ourselves in one another. That said, our latest ordeal (yesterday) was rather harsh, and I’m questioning my ability to withstand external blows.

What is the romantic future between us?
Would I have other children?

Oh right, of course, I forgot the numbers!
Voilà :
4,7,8,21

Thank you

Hello Mel,

You're a Pisces, and he's a Cancer.
You certainly love it, but you are also of the explosive "all or nothing" type. And it is largely your shared sensitivity that plays tricks on you, as you take external attacks or everything too much to heart.
You have a romantic future together, but only if you learn to make decisive choices and stop letting others intrude on your lives.
Based on this reading, I don't see any other children on the horizon at the moment. To see if there will be a possibility of pregnancy, please give me 12 numbers between 1 and 22.

Have a good day
The magician.

Good evening, my dear Lemagicien,

First of all, thank you for the accuracy and speed of your response.

“ALL OR NOTHING, explosive, sensitive, playful, external attacks” OMG I’m blown away. That’s so us Hat to the magician

The vocabulary you use perfectly matches our “couple.” Biiiii I don’t like that word, yuk yuk. (Post-traumatic consequence of my divorce lol)

My Tims artist is a real pain right now, he's wasting tons of energy fighting windmills and I'm so fed up! He's unbearable! He's an angry rocker but damn, there are limits!
Plus, his very, very pretty ex hasn't completely left his head, and I get the impression he's a bit on the fence, even though she's moved her hair straighteners to other horizons. And not to mention all the fans he has who dream of him, but I'm less worried about that.

I am patient and not the jealous type, but you shouldn't push it, even into the thorns, if you allow me this charming expression! lol

As for a possible pregnancy, of course it would be very unwelcome right now (I’m trying to convince myself), given that we’ve only been together for a short time and our relationship is, to put it mildly, turbulent, but I can’t help thinking about it. With the midlife crisis, a surge in hormones, I don’t know, I’m thinking about it all the time. Would I have other children, with him or with someone else?

So here are my 12 numbers to help you:

4, 7 ,8, 10, 19, 13 ,21 ,14, 16,17, 20, 6.

Please look into my case, I really appreciate it.
I wish you a very good evening,
As for me, I'm waiting for my artist who, without resorting to clairvoyance, will be late! Grrr!

PEACE my friend,
Mel.

Hello Mel,

Thank you for your clairvoyance feedback!
You've got a great sense of humor despite all the setbacks, which is a good sign because it means that, despite everything, you're still biting into life with both teeth.
Regarding your question about a possible pregnancy, the answer is negative for the coming year, whether with him or with someone else.

With all my friendship
The magician.

Good evening Lemagicien, and thank you for your reply.
Tonight, I’ve lost my sense of humor a bit…
It really makes me see things, you know…
He has a concert tonight (he's a singer), and I'm waiting for him at his place.
He forgot his phone and I couldn't help but read the two texts he just received (from a fan and his ex). Yes, I know it's very wrong to do that, but I couldn't stop myself. I don't recognize myself anymore; it's not my style to snoop. But I have very little trust in him... And yet, the week we spent together was wonderful.
I am very sad, I don't know what to do. I think I will take my clicks and clacks and go home.
What do you think about his ex? And this fan? Is he lying to me?
I am nonetheless convinced that he loves me; am I blind?

Update on the situation: he just stormed out of the house and is furious about the anonymous call I just made to his fan's girlfriend (she told him; her concert is 2 minutes from the house). He tells me to trust him, that there’s nothing going on, and that if I leave, it’s over. All of this while screaming like a calf…
I kept all my composure and explained to him that I was simply sad and that my feelings were hurt. He has the knack for turning any situation to his advantage.
Sorry for the Franglais, I think I’m Jean-Claude Van Damming myself…
I'm so afraid of losing him. There are so many girls around him...
By the way, he says the same thing about me. He’s obviously very jealous. He checks my phone all the time…

Ahhhh it’s not easy. But at the same time, I’m revisiting love, betrayal, hatred, and reunions. It’s feeling alive. Yet I long for something simpler… And I know we can get there.

So here are my numbers, if you’re not too sick of working for free for my sake…
13,18,21,15.

I wish you a very good evening,
A sunny kiss from me xxx
Mel.