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I'd say she's making progress, even though I prefer to keep my distance... I don't know if I mean anything to him, or if he's still the same as before, or if it's just that he doesn't like showing his feelings, but whatever...
And another thing, I’m going to find someone serious for marriage… or am I going to remain sterile in the void?

Good evening, peaceandlove,
In my opinion, you won't remain alone; I don't see a marriage happening right away, but it won't be sterile or empty either.
Everything is dragging on; we still need to arm ourselves with patience before finding the right one.
Best regards
Ladysally

Someone told me this and I want to know if it’s true or not: that I will meet a good man in early 2012 (maybe January). He is in the health field and I will meet him in a public enclosed place!! Is this true or not? (And Yona told me that there will be a relationship with someone younger!!) What do you think about all this!!

Hello peaceandlove,
I won’t be able to give you an answer in time, but I can already tell you that you won’t be alone and that you will find the right one. Don’t just take the first one that comes along!!! A little more patience, everything will fall into place for those who know how to wait.
Best regards
ladysally

ohhhhhhh my god I missed someone who I really liked :s :s !!! lol
I don't know how to speak, but I fill my emptiness with my ex!! Do you think he has someone in mind or feelings for someone else? His name is Kader..

I understand the reason why you fill the void with your ex... it's because you know him and you prefer to be with someone you know and appreciate rather than exposing yourself to men whose intentions you don't know or whose feelings toward you you're unaware of. Once you find the right man, you won't care about his feelings!!! For now, you'll be with him just as he'll be with you, but ultimately, each of you will go on to live your life with someone else.
Kisses

Hi beautiful, yes, you did it ^^, I don't trust it!! It's as if you read my thoughts ^^... But regarding my ex, lately we've been arguing a lot, we don't understand each other at all, he's often busy and I like to take care of myself!! So I prefer to keep my distance and step back, and leave our relationship as a friendship, from time to time. What do you think about that!!! And how does he see things!!! Because I think he has a girlfriend too, since he told me he was going to call her!! But without details and quickly (because he thinks I'm in a relationship!!), and I didn't give any details!! So is it true??

Hello my beautiful peaceandlove,
Yes, as I was saying, the relationship will increasingly deteriorate until the day you are fed up with this relationship that no longer suits you. For now, there are exchanges on both sides because it suits you both. As long as there is no clarity from your side and his, everything will stagnate; you will be going in circles. Yes, he has a female friend; you are not the only one involved.
Best regards
Ladysally

Thanks a lot, little one, given your reply!! I think I’m going to let it go, I’m already fed up!! We don’t understand each other at all, I’ll let him live his life, and I’ll live mine, and if there are any feelings, I’ll keep them as friendship, that’s better, because I’m sure he doesn’t love me!!! But that he’s just gotten used to my feelings!! I’m going to stay silent, do you think he’ll look for me and reach out!!!.. or what should I do? A big thank you, my dear, ..I need your gift!!

You're welcome, my dear peaceandlove,
If he loves you in his own way, he doesn't make choices because he needs multiple people to feel fulfilled. He needs a friend, a mistress, so there you go: he was already with the other one before he met you, which is why he won't let her go and will try to keep things this way for as long as possible. Take him as you usually do if you need him (even if you don't know how to do without him), but don't close yourself off to other potential relationships.
I wish you lots of patience, courage, and strength while you wait to find the right one.
Best regards
Ladysally

Yes, yes, I see. No, I don't want to be his mistress, because in that case, I would be the one in control! I kept silent for two months, I live my life too, but being in constant contact with him is a headache!! I can't change him; we've known each other for five years, and it always ends up the same story: silence from my part, then he reaches out, he becomes sweet, then he's distant. When I want to see him, he runs away. It frustrates me, and it's back to silence!!! Recently, I ran into him while I was with a close friend, and he showed that he was jealous. I no longer know what to do. I'm hesitating because I want to see him, and every time he's busy, so we fight!! If I go silent, he'll call me (that's better, since he's the one looking for me), or he won't, in which case I'll hold out until I see him!! …

Dealing with him is a headache
You can't change it.
For 5 years, nothing has progressed
It’s a cat-and-mouse game on your end because you want to see him, but he doesn’t change; you go silent, and he shows up… because, as I said, you know each other, and everything falls into place at the right moment. Love, friendship, and intimacy are not truly present, because when you love someone, you try to be as close to that person as possible. Whether he calls you or you call him, it only serves for a brief moment, nothing more. You shut others out and waste your time. You deserve much better.
Be patient, everything will come in time. You must be the master of your life and your destiny, and see whether this relationship is right for you or not.
Best regards
Ladysally

So, after reading your words, I’ve decided to step back and let him live his life. And if he ever resurfaces (and he’ll be surprised, because it’s always me who cuts off and then reconnects :p), well, in the meantime, I’m living my life. As for him, have you seen a connection from 2012?

Happy New Year and all the happiness ^^ ..

Good evening peaceandlove,
I see you going out and meeting quite a few people in 2012, somewhat freed from your relationship, and an opening to the future will open your eyes to another world. Yes, 2012 will bring you new love and new happiness.
Best regards
Ladysally

Good evening, beautiful Sally. Yes, my dear, regarding getting back together with my ex (Kader), it’s true that it didn’t last. Well, it was a resumption of contact, not a relationship!! I let it go today. I told him that each of us is going our own way, because even a friendship can’t work. He has problems, I think. I’m fed up with the headaches, so here’s to the New Year. I hate living this way!! … I’m sorry, but you can see that it’s really over this time; I’m fed up with this relationship, whether romantic or friendly!! …

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As I was saying, my dear peaceandlove,
You will still have some contacts here and there, but they will not be constructive or lasting. For the time being, that is how it is until you have a replacement.
Kisses

First of all, I wanted to wish you a happy new year, full of joy and happiness …*
Here is my decision, my dear. I have ended my virtual relationship with my ex, and this time I am going to turn a new page. I hope I can hold on to this resolve, because I know that if I stay in contact with him, I will be in the same spot in two years. So I hope to rebuild my life again after five years of loss, and finally find the right one. ..

Hello my dear peaceandlove,
Don't lose heart, one day your prince will come. He taught you something, it's a stage in your life, an experience, and in the meantime, he was by your side. Now you need to think ahead and live your life. You won't be alone, no.
Kind regards
Ladysally

So yes, he is with another woman. I think he met her recently!! because he is in the midst of temptation!! and he wants me to remain his mistress!! so he cuts me off and talks to her, and it hurts me!! … I don’t know if there will be a return and if he will resurface because I told him goodbye .. but I feel that he doesn’t care as long as he is with the other woman!!! but maybe with time he will realize my worth!!! What do you think? …

Good evening, my dear peaceandlove,
Yes, who knows with time, but the most important thing is the present, and later it will be too late, as they say.
Actually, he’s not looking for value because his goal isn’t to start a family, so it’s something he needs, and value comes later. Yes, he will know your value.
Kisses
Ladysally