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Hello!

My ex-spouse has been with a woman for about three years, but she is a devil, in other words, she is truly mean. And yet, I don't even speak to her, I don't even know her, we have never even met, but she has a knack for not leaving me alone, asking me if she isn't jealous. My ex-spouse happens to be the father of my child.

Will my question finally leave me in peace for the year 2012??

Thank you very much!

Hello petite39,
Indeed, she is jealous of you, of what you were able to give your ex (a child), she is jealous of the past, of the experiences in your past relationship, but also in the present, given that you have maintained contact with your ex for various reasons. The past still binds you, and so does the child. She is afraid that things will start again between you and that she will remain powerless, and this comes out as rage and resentment.
She needs to be reassured that there will be nothing between you anymore. It will take a little more time for her to let go and stop bothering you. If you want to get your ex back, that’s a different story, but if you no longer want to, have a discussion with her and make things clear.
I think jealousy will never stop, but at least a reduction in its intensity would already be quite something.
Best regards
Ladysally