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Good evening, ladysally
I was born on April 11, 1970.
I have my first appointment at the hospital at the end of the month with my partner for IVF (in vitro fertilization). We are trying to have a child, but my partner has some issues. I am worried that it might fail and that nothing will come of it. I am so eager to have a child, and at the same time, I am being realistic. I am at a turning point in my life, and strangely, I don't feel as happy as I should. I would like to know what you see for me?
Thank you, Ladyssally

Good evening lalyjeanne,

I feel the sadness deep within you, but to get a result, you need to be zen and, above all, believe in it!!!
Never say I don't know, I don't believe it; you must stay positive and let hope enter your heart.

I understand your desire to have a baby, and it’s our biological clock that calls for it, as well as the maternal instinct. You would have liked to have this child naturally, and the very fact of having to conceive with medical assistance makes you feel bad, why? Because of the fear of not achieving a positive result.

I don't know why I see the number 5?? Maybe you already did it 5 months ago, or you'll have to do it again within 5 months?? I see that you will have decisions and choices to make, and that sooner or later you will have this pregnancy. It will be difficult at first, but in the end, yes, I see this pregnancy for you.

Keep me posted, kisses, lady.

Hello Ladysally,

Thank you for getting back to me,
Sad, yes, and indeed deep down, because on the surface I make sure it doesn't show on me, because at 41, wanting to have a child, people think it's a ridiculous idea, that it's too late... so I prefer to stay silent on this subject.
Besides, these people don't understand that a woman is not a child; we are truly treated like extraterrestrials. For a woman, not being a mother in our society is like not being an adult woman...
If I want a child, it is not to please them; I want to fulfill my childhood dream. As a little girl, I wanted to become a mother and have a family, but unfortunately, life had other plans. As an adult, I had to face difficulties to finally see the light of day after my thirties. My partner makes me happy; I met him late in life, and he too had to face life's ups and downs. I am happy to be building my life with him today. Like him, having a child would mean having a family for us.
My sadness would be knowing that we couldn't be together naturally, even though I am aware that nature does not want it, admittedly, I would have to grieve that (a grief is always very hard to live through, as it would indeed be one), so I wonder what my life would be like without it, whether I will throw myself into my professional life so as not to think about it anymore, not to think about us.

ladysally,
I will keep you posted on the events. There was nothing five months ago, and perhaps in five months, that is to say in May 2012, something will happen, probably at the hospital in gynecology.

Good evening, my dear lalyjeanne,

You're welcome, I'm happy to help.

If you have the right more than anyone else, then you have the right, and even with medical assistance, the child will be yours, and the rest doesn't count; it's just up to you how you conceive it. In our place, it's just as painful; we are nothing if we don't give birth, pfffff, and if it's a girl, it's a disaster, pfffffff. Yes, I know that. I was pregnant at 29 and gave birth at 30, so you see, there is no age limit to wanting a child; it's the most natural and legitimate thing. Even women who have already had several pregnancies have them after fifty, and if you want to and can, the rest is just nonsense.

Be patient, you will see that you will have a pregnancy this year, and it will be beneficial for you. I am 41 years old, and I saw the number 5; maybe it's a sign.

Kind regards
Ladysally

30 is also a great age to have a child, 41 is pushing it, and 50… for me, that’s out of the question, because you have to raise them and pay for their education on top of that; at 60, they’ll be ten years old. Charlie Chaplin had a child at 81 and died before he could meet him, sad for a little one.

For the number 5, it is either 41 or 2012, because it is a year 5.

Hahaha, no need to panic, my second daughter was born when I was 35; there’s no age limit to taking responsibility for raising your children. You need to start saving now. Yes, but he did it very late.

I'm putting year 5 here for you

The Year of Innovation
Generally speaking. A year under the sign of movement and freedom! Everything is perpetual change. It is a year that will be about life changes. It is a liberating year. It frees you from the constraints you have had until now. You must seize the opportunities that will come your way. Many changes will be possible in various areas. If year 4 was very active, here you are in a year where you can travel and have fun. The goal is to improve your personal life, which has been neglected until now. For some, it will be a matter of moving. It is a year where you must question yourself and start on new foundations.

In terms of romance
The year is 5 and is under the sign of encounters and a certain freedom.
For singles, you will have a year under the sign of passion. The program includes wild love and adventures. Your senses will be on alert. You will have opportunities to experience short-term romantic relationships. Be careful, relationships started this year will tend not to last. You might even be euphoric after a period of solitude. In short, you are biting into life with full teeth!
For couples, your libido will be at its peak, which will bring a new momentum to your relationship. It will be a year in which you will rediscover yourself. Some may experience a period of instability or neglect. Beware of indiscretions, as you may pay for them in the future.

In terms of professional life
A year rich in changes. Opportunities will present themselves to you. You will be able to evolve in new professional perspectives. If you were not expecting any changes, then the unpredictable is here for you too.

In terms of finances
A somewhat unstable year. There will be ups and downs. You will feel like treating yourself and will take risks. Be careful about what you do!

http://www.guidedelavoyance.com/services/numerology2012.php

Best regards
Ladysally

Hello Ladysally,

Here is my update on the news: I had a miscarriage two months ago, but I’m in good spirits.

By the way, I’m wondering if I might be pregnant again. I’m supposed to get my period on Friday or Saturday. I have an appointment with my gynecologist on Thursday the 3rd (which is stressing me out), but do you think I’m pregnant?

Otherwise, I'm worried about my work, but I'll deal with that later.

I hope things are booming for you, Lady. I often think of you, and when I look at your photo, I see a fulfilled and happy woman, and I truly wish that for you.

LALY