relational * * * ok

Good evening, ladysally
Almost ten years ago, a Reiki master gave me the first names of three important men in my life: my father, the father of my children, and a third man. Moreover, the order was: the third man, my father, and the father of my children.
As for my children's father, I am separated from him but still close, and I am trying to be at peace with him.
For my father, we are geographically far apart but very present in each other's lives.
What questions me is the relationship with the “third man”: especially since desire sometimes assails me.
Will there be more friendly or romantic intimacy between him and me? Is this relationship destined to last?
Thank you very much for the answer you will be able to give me,
shanti

Good evening shantirainbow,
You had a love at first sight, it’s certain you like him, but I can’t say he’s the man of your life. Because you want it, but he doesn’t. He’s a bit selfish, distant, and doesn’t expect anything from you (I’m not saying this maliciously). There’s friendship, universal feelings, but not love or passion, and you shouldn’t harbor false hopes; that would be childish. He’s a good person, but all I see is deep and sincere friendship, and friendship will become increasingly present, and then there will be no room for love.
With affection
Ladysally

Thank you very much, LadySally,
I have quite a few things to tackle this year, but the risk is that I’ll put everything off until tomorrow, waiting for a certain encounter. I might get lost in my daydreams.
So, is there a nice liaison on the 2012 schedule, or do I still have to wait?
Kisses and kisses, Ladysally,
shanti

You will quickly move on to other things, dear shantirainbow. Live your life, do what you have to do, and that is how it is; it is when we expect nothing that it comes. So there, you will find love, but as I was saying, not with the one you hope for. In any case, I can say that the year 2012 will be a year of encounters for you.
Kisses
Ladysally

Good evening, ladysally,
New manager in the sector where I work, but not my direct manager. I will be working with him.
Will this professional situation be positive for me, and will I be able to work with him confidently?
Thank you in advance,
shanti

Hello shantirainbow
For now, you are in a situation of waiting and seeing how things unfold… He is withdrawn, trying to draw lessons from his experiences, and thus he can better guide others (a sage, in short). There will be deep and radical changes, or perhaps it can be seen as the time of the harvest and the reaping. It allows you to make the changes necessary for your evolution. You will follow your little path, your way. You must be careful of desires and temptations, for you are not free. It is a mix of colleague and friend, even more so if you let yourselves go in the emotions.
Kind regards

Thanks for your advice, ladysally!
So it’s a man I have to let come, but who will be good advice, “a wise man,” you tell me: that’s the impression I get. As for the rest… you confirm an impression of colleague, friend, or even worse… worse, since we are not free.
So, hooray because he is most likely in a relationship and hooray for me because I am not yet, and I do not think that being at work together is what makes us “not free”
So I’m also taking this advice to heart: not to let sensuality creep in between us.
Thank you, thank you ladysally!!

Good evening shantirainbow,
It all depends on what you expect and what you get from a man or a relationship… if he suits you and makes you happy, why not???
Kisses
Ladysally