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Violence involving a deceased person

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Hello, can anyone interpret my dream for me?
I dreamed of my late mother-in-law, who passed away in 2003. She was sitting on our marital bed, telling me to leave her son alone, saying that your son is my husband and also the father of my two daughters, and that it was her who should be left alone. We got into a fight, exchanging insults. Anyway, you have nothing left to say or do, considering you are dead. Now the door is closed on you, and indeed, the door closes and locks itself automatically, you see, I told her. It closes and locks, you can no longer come in, I told her. But if he becomes paralyzed, would you treat him? Yes, I would treat him, and she asked me that question again, and I told her that I would treat him against all odds. I woke up in tears.
P.S. I had this dream on December 20, 2005, and on the 21st of the same month, I learned of my husband's secrets. On December 23, he left, abandoning us—my daughters and me. After a few days, he quickly came back.

Help me!
Ladysally

Oh no… sorry Ladysally, I hadn’t seen this message…
Sorry...
Natou

Dear Ladysally,

However, if you have any questions to ask me about Turkish culture that might help or reassure you, feel free to reach out to me.

Friendship,
Natou

Hello Natouchka,

I am of Turkish origin, and sometimes I don't really understand it myself!

But I’m sure I’ll catch up with you, and thanks again for your help.

Friendship
Ladysally

Good evening, Ladysally,

There are two points to note in this dream: the insults and the closed door.
I have the impression that this dream conceals a likely inheritance story in which malicious or offensive attitudes would have hurt you, precisely because benefits are coming your way that others would want for themselves…
A door that closes or locks is a sign of emotional or family discord, often related to financial matters.

See you soon
The magician.

Hello Ladysally!

Well, dear?! Welcome to the club for those who don't understand, then. :laughing:
Let everyone excuse this digression, I am returning to French :wink:

The image and psychological weight of the mother are very present in this culture. It is quite difficult to manage for someone who has at least a dual cultural background, who lives in France but is of a different origin. Try to remain calm and focus on the present.

Friendship
Natou

Hello Lemagicien,

Well! You are right, when I found out that my husband had come into a small sum of money and other deceptions on his part, not to mention the plots of land that were sold without my knowledge.
But that is all he knows. With that, he left the house and came back just as quickly.
All of this so that I wouldn’t have a party; now everything is fine.
Thank you, and I wish you a good day.
Best regards
Ladysally

Hello Natouchka,
How are you, are you well?
I don't know if you speak and write fluently, because I am not very comfortable writing in Turkish, but I speak it well.
It’s quite difficult to manage this situation, especially when the husband swears by them (his entire family) and we are put in second place, or even third, but he is making an effort and I have withdrawn into my corner, and so everything is going for the best.

I miss you. Take care of yourself.
Ladysally

:o Sally, do you mean to say you're cutting it close? It’s true that cultures have little to discuss… :wink:

Rolande

Hello Rolande,

Yes, I am holed up in my corner. The people whose presence I avoid are devoid of any dialogue. They only have their truth, which is true, so they try to indoctrinate me. I am willing to listen and will try to understand, but if I do not agree with them, they quickly label me as an atheist or a troublemaker, even though I am a believing but non-practicing Muslim woman.

So as not to frustrate some people, I say that I am isolated at home, that we are not on the same wavelength, and that we each have our own points of view, and that there is no attitude of tolerance toward my way of living or of raising my daughters, and as a result there is no common ground but discord.

I like that there is a certain harmony on his side, and since they don’t tolerate me, I remain courteous, respectful, and distant from them.

Kind regards
Sally

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