tired of the uncertainty

Good evening, I have been in a relationship for almost three years and my uncertainties remain: even though we have started a family together, he seems to give it no importance. He displays the same attitudes and gives no importance to his son (whom he had before I met him). I understand that they have spent many years together, but I would like him to understand that there are now two more people and that they need to make room for us. The more I talk about it to find a compromise, the more it feels like I am talking to a wall that refuses to listen. I am starting to get tired and wonder whether we should just end things and each go our separate ways, even though we have a four-month-old baby. I don't know what he expects from me? Does he still have feelings for me? So many questions.
What do you see for us? A separation or a settlement?
My numbers: 1, 6, 3, 15
Thank you in advance

Hello Milay13,

Feelings are still strong between the two of you, so I don’t see a separation, but the question to ask is who really wears the pants at home, because that’s where I perceive the problems.

My regards
The magician.

Thank you for your response.