Hello dear lalyjeanne,
I was also sad when I heard the news, and I didn't know what to say or how to react.
Honestly, don't get discouraged and keep going. If you want, take a year off with your mutual insurance and get closely monitored by a doctor. There are certainly medical preparations to undergo before, during, and after pregnancy to facilitate the implantation of the egg in the uterus. Who knows, you may also need to take some medications… I don't know.
Because I saw a pregnancy but not a miscarriage (a change that requires long conversations, a change in the air, currently kept secret), so you could be pregnant, but in my opinion you have issues keeping it, and that is what needs to be monitored to avoid a miscarriage. Also, check in neighboring countries if they do this and what it would cost, etc.
I see a maternity ward; if it is not for now, it will be for later. I answer your question: if you will be a mother, yes, you will be a mother. Change the way you do things, the way you think, act with a positive attitude.
Big kisses