Help me make a decision

Good evening, everyone

I thank everyone who supported me in my suffering, especially Jossy and Tom.

The clairvoyance hand-extended that predicted there would be no divorce between me and my wife today during our hearing at the court was correct.

I am enormously happy about it.

The next hearing will take place on 07/03/2006

The adjournment was requested by my wife’s lawyer, and the court granted it. I believe, according to what my lawyer told me, that since it is a new lawyer, he is entitled to a deadline to review the case.

The judge asked if we have children, and I answered that we have two children.
They live with me, and I showed him their school enrollment certificates; he asked me to hand them over to my lawyer, which I did.

I sent her several messages inviting her to reconcile, while asking her to forgive me and telling her that I still loved her, even more than before, and that it was in the interest of our little family that we should reconcile.

SHE DID NOT REPLY TO ANY MESSAGE.

For this custody hearing, I have the intuition that my wife could not bear the loneliness and that she is preparing a plan to get my daughter Zineb back.

• Legally, she has no right unless my daughter Zineb changes her mind and tells the judge that she wants to go back and live with her.

• For my son Youssef, who is an adult, she has no chance; he has already made up his mind and wants to stay.

My daughter is lacking nothing; all her wishes are fulfilled, even if she sometimes goes overboard. I always try to make her happy.

Perhaps she convinced him when she spent these last 5 days of vacation with him.

What advice do you have regarding the course of action to take with my children so that we remain united and to convince my wife to reconcile?

I think only your advice and suggestions, or a clairvoyance with an outstretched hand, can enlighten me and provide answers to my questions.

THANK YOU TO EVERYONE.
May God bless you and keep you

KARAM

Hello everyone

I wanted to share with you the kind message Karam sent me. Hope and the will to get through can open doors. I am delighted for Karam that he had the opportunity to open one, and I wish that it remains open for his happiness. Let's wish him good luck and good courage.

Thank you, Jossy.

The clairvoyance with an outstretched hand comforted me and gave me hope to continue on the path of reconciliation.

I will do everything in my power to keep our little family together.

Accept any suggestion from the members

Thank you very much to everyone

May God keep you
1000 times, thank you

Good evening, Jossy
Thank you for your message, which comforted me.

It's been a long time since I last contacted you because I was hospitalized; I had a nervous breakdown. Things are better now. My children suffered, but praise be to God, with a bit of courage and good will, and the help of my two sisters and my mother, I have recovered.

My next court hearing will take place on April 25, 2006.

The new facts are:

I caught my wife, whom I still love, with another man, and a fight broke out between us—the police intervened and a report was filed.
I’m still waiting for our appearance before the judge.

I filed another complaint against him, and it was resolved on Monday when I gave my statement at the police station.

The man I met with was heard by the police today, who were able to establish that he was the one who had turned him against me.

What do you advise me to do on Tuesday, April 25, 2006?

I would like, if possible, a clairvoyance reading to tell me how this story will end.

This is for my daughter Zineb, who won’t stop crying despite the exam period. She was begging me to forgive her mother. She can’t cope with our separation.

My daughter ZINEB threatened me twice that in the event of a divorce, she would commit suicide or leave the house for an unknown destination.

Thank you for your help
I wish you a long life full of happiness, as well as to anyone willing to offer me advice or help of any kind.

I am eagerly awaiting your response.

As a Muslim, I tell you, God is my witness that I am telling you the pure truth.

THANK YOU-THANK YOU

Hello Karam,

Please let me know how you are doing.

I note with sadness that there are still many problems to resolve.

I will first focus on Zineb's situation, in which her suffering leads her into negative thoughts and projects a very bleak future, her intentions nonetheless being worrying.

During our various private messages, I had suggested at the time that you help your children through this painful ordeal by accompanying them to a child psychiatrist or psychologist, as I sensed that the family situation might lead to psychological difficulties. Therefore, in my view, it is high time that you took the step of meeting with a doctor who alone can detect the slightest sign that you may not see, which is quite normal, and who can help Zineb cope with this family breakdown. This medical care, combined with your love and that of your mother and sisters, will allow Zineb to regain some peace of mind.

I knew you would discover this man’s existence through your wife; I had prepared you for it during our private messages. I always told you there was something else that made your wife want to divorce. It is a shame that you came to blows with this man.

I would like to give you some advice; in fact, in a private message, I suggested that you keep your cool and try to remain calm, because I sensed that they would do everything to rattle you and make you lose your temper, thereby losing all credibility.

You are currently at a crossroads, and important decisions will be made: first, the courts will have to rule on your divorce and on the altercation that pitted you against that man; then, you too will be forced to make choices and take decisions in order to keep living despite the worries.

Therefore, I cannot advise you strongly enough: given your reactions, this will not be easy for you, but for this upcoming hearing, you must absolutely keep your calm, meticulously prepare your defense with your lawyer, as every detail matters, and let your lawyer speak and express themselves. Your emotions are too affected for you to remain pragmatic.

Apparently, your wife made her choices while accompanied by another man and wanting to divorce, so I strongly fear that she will not change her mind. Furthermore, you believe that this man manipulated her against you; don't you think that it ultimately suited her and gave her a good reason to end your marriage? You may find me harsh for saying this, but I prefer to remain realistic rather than lead you to believe things that are not true.

Now, Karam, you must be dignified and not give the impression of a downcast, nervous, and unstable man in front of your wife and her circle, for they will feel victorious, and that will only serve to diminish you. Do you not believe that you deserve better than to hope for a utopian, illusory return of a wife who does not care about her children's suffering? It is high time that people saw you differently, despite the flaws that led you to make mistakes.

May this painful experience, Karam, open doors that will allow you to see life differently.

As a friend, I can only advise you to be wise and calm, and to ensure that this unpleasant episode in your life ends on good terms. Life is not over, Karam; you still have a long road ahead. I hope you can continue it happily, and who knows, you might meet someone who makes you happy and helps you forget your suffering. Stay positive. You must absolutely think of your children first so that they can regain a sense of balance.

I remain at your disposal and await your news

It is my turn to wish you much happiness and courage.

Please give my love to your children.

Hello Karam4345,

It is not easy to end a relationship for various reasons, such as the children, habits, love, not wanting to be alone, etc.

For my part, there are limits that must not be crossed. If things are not going well, one must hold firm and try to endure for a while, but if she has made her choice, one must not press the issue, because it will never be the same as before.

You’ve had your fill of misery, Karam4345. I understand it’s painful to see your wife with another man, but remember it’s never too late. You can also rebuild your life with a loving woman who will respect you and is worth it.

The children are sad, which is normal; otherwise, it would be abnormal. Take them to the child psychiatrist; they will know what to do.

As for your wife and that guy, you must not let yourself get into negative states over them, as your situation will be worsened by these incidents. Do not give them that satisfaction. If your wife has left, she has made her choice; let her go, it is better for everyone. For now, you see the situation as muddled and dark. Do not worry, there is a light at the end of the tunnel, my dear Karam4345.

Try to move on, take care of the children and your mind, work if you can, exercise, etc.

Best regards
Ladysally

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