rupture

Good evening,
We are going through a rough patch. We are a blended family; my partner has a 14-year-old son, and we have a one-year-old daughter. We are constantly fighting because of his son. He pays more attention to our daughter, while he only verbally attacks me. When we talk about him, he refuses to make any concessions; it is always me who has to make the effort and give in. I am starting to get tired because everything I do is always misinterpreted. I am asking you to see if we are heading straight for a breakup or if there is still a possibility of fixing things.
My numbers: 13, 3, 15, 27.
Thank you in advance

Hello Milay13,

Your partner has a 14-year-old son, which is a difficult and rebellious age for that young man. I don’t see a breakup coming between you two; yes, you will manage to sort things out, but only on the condition that you speak calmly with each other. Learn to listen to one another without getting on each other’s nerves or trying to be absolutely right. Temper your anger and don’t get worked up over trivial matters! You two, as adults, also need to talk and get closer to this 14-year-old boy without necessarily having to criticize him, as he too needs to be listened to and for things to be explained to him with a certain diplomacy. But if you really want to save your relationship, then stop this power struggle or the dynamics of force between all of you.

Have a good end of the afternoon
The magician.