to start a real family life

Hello,

I am new to this site, so please forgive my lack of familiarity with the members' customs in advance.

My question:

I fell in love with my best friend. I’m not talking about a simple attraction, a need for tenderness, or a desire for seduction; I’m talking about true love, the kind that makes you feel like you can fly, that makes you think about shared plans, marriage, and having a child…

I “confessed” my feelings to her (without being able to hold back… it just came out on its own, without any premeditation, my heart spoke and my head wasn’t able to stop it…) It didn’t make her run away; she told me it had touched her, that she found it beautiful, and that no one had ever spoken to her like that before… BUT (there’s always a BUT) she refused to live two relationships at the same time (she’s been with someone for a year, things aren’t going too well between them, it will end one day, but she’s unable to hurt anyone and therefore doesn’t have the strength to break up).

Asking her if she wanted to create something with me once her current story was finished, she gave me the famous “I don’t know,” which can mean:

• Yes, but I’m not saying anything so you don’t get carried away.
• I really don't know
• No, but since I like you, I don't want to tell you so as not to hurt you.

In short… I want to get back together with her and start a real family life again… will that happen, and if so, when? What should I do or avoid?

Thank you for your reply

Oh yeah… 14 - 21 - 12

Thank you.

Hello Phil1313,

Welcome to the AZ website and forum!

Your best friend is charmed by your beautiful words and your honesty toward her, because your declaration is indeed very beautiful. But know also that your friend is a conciliatory type of woman; therefore, even if things are not going well in her couple, she will try everything to save it. The eternal “BUT” is due to her honesty and integrity toward those she loves, because she is wholehearted and, again, not the type to seek adventure or to wish to live an extramarital relationship.
The reading confirms that she doesn't know, so no excitement, it's also true that she likes you.
I advise you to stay close to her as a friend, and if things are meant to develop between you two on a romantic level, they will, but let time take its course without rushing!
The one thing you must absolutely avoid is rushing or pestering, because in that case, too much demonstrated love can end up suffocating the other person.
In short, there is hope because you managed to touch her sensitivity, but be patient!

It was a pleasure, and have a good day.
The magician.