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Hello The Magician,

I'm reaching out to you again because new events are being added to our lives right now, but in fact, this concerns my partner more than me.

Here is the situation: he is waiting for his divorce to be finalized. The paperwork has been prepared with his lawyer, but we still haven't heard anything, and it's been almost a year now. This is getting very long, as we would like to set a date for our wedding. Also, we learned today that his 12-year-old daughter wants to move back home. We are happy about her decision, but we have doubts about whether her mother agrees. He also received a letter from social services regarding his son. So here is my question, even though you probably already suspect what I'm going to ask.
Will his divorce be granted soon?
Is her daughter really going to come back?
And regarding his son, is it serious or not for my partner? (I would like to point out that he was not aware of this visit to his mother by the social worker.)

I give you my numbers 3 7 10 8 22 9

Thank you for your response, see you soon.

Didinelolo

Good evening Didinelolo,

Yes, he is waiting for his divorce, but if it takes this long, it is a sign that his partner must be opposing the divorce for one reason or another, whether for material/financial reasons or otherwise...
I see her daughter coming home; regarding the pronouncement of the divorce, I advise you to contact the lawyer handling the case, as in principle a divorce should not take a year or more to be finalized!
As for the son, I don't think it's serious.
Keep me posted…

See you soon and have a good weekend
The magician.

Thank you for such a quick reply.

Regarding his ex, we agreed to what she wanted, so I don’t understand, but he has to get in touch with his lawyer on Monday morning.

And thank you again.

Have a good weekend.

Didinelolo

Hello, magician,

So here is some news: we are indeed getting our daughter back starting in January, and we are very happy about this.

Regarding her divorce, there is still no news from her lawyer, despite attempts to call.

I would like to know if my partner's son will want to move back home, as he is going to have a care worker at his mother's place and therefore a social worker on his case.

Here are my numbers: 5, 20, 9, 18

Thank you and see you soon

Hello Didielolo,

Thank you for your clairvoyance feedback!
He will want to move back home, but your partner’s son has quite a temper, so you’ll need to keep an eye on him and not give in to all his whims—know how to set boundaries!

See you soon
The magician.

Hello, magician

Thank you for your help. He had already wanted to come back in August but changed his mind (I think under his mother's influence). As for his return, I also think he will want to come back, given that his sister is coming to live with us.

As for his character, yes, he has some, but with us it’s fine; he rebels like any child his age, but we manage to keep him in check.

Thank you again, and have a happy holiday season.

Didinelolol

Good evening,

Here is, on the one hand, I wish you a happy 2013, may it bring you prosperity and above all good health.

I’m reaching out to you again because today has been a day of major changes. Indeed, my partner’s ex asked if we could take in our partner’s 11-year-old son, as she has to go stay with her mother for two months and will return to our area afterward. I’ll spare you the details of the crying moments for his son, who was presented with a fait accompli (and I completely understand that).

Finally, I have quite a few questions about this change in circumstances because, as I explained to you in my various messages, she had a social worker and the child was supposed to have an educator for six months. So I wonder if her move to her mother's house wasn't just a very simple excuse. And I think you must well assume that I am worried about their son and about our couple and family life.

Here are my questions: what will happen in the coming weeks regarding their son? Are we going to have any problems with her?
My numbers are 5 9 15 20 1 8

Thank you for your help.

didinelolo

Hello,

I am still awaiting a response from you.

Thank you

See you soon.

didinelolo

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