rupture

Good evening,
My partner and I have been together for three years. We have a 14-month-old daughter, and he has a 15-year-old son who lives with his mother. Lately, there have been many arguments because of his son, and he is talking about separation. For me, that is not a solution, but I am starting to think that he may be right. He has an attitude as if he is tired of everything and no longer wants to make any effort. It feels as though his daughter and I are driving him crazy. I think the feeling is no longer there, and I am tired too. Do you see a separation?
My numbers: 6, 1, 3, 13, 15.
Thank you in advance.

Hello Milay13

Well, and yes, it’s certainly true that there’s a sense of malaise and discomfort.
It's true that he often says bad things about you.
Of course, it’s also worth making you uncomfortable, which is why you’re angry.
One thing I don’t see any separation for now
Of course he has feelings for you.
However, he doesn't see that past failure clearly either; he often dwells on it.
for this woman, he loved her
Another thing: the separation he had was caused by a third party.
Was it she who left him?
Continuing your project with him ignores his distress.
All of this will settle down with time.

organ

Hello,
Yes, it was she who left him for someone else. He is still in a relationship since they have a son who is almost 15 years old, and perhaps seeing her causes him distress, but as I tell him, he needs to grieve the past and move forward, and that my daughter and I should not have to pay for that. He says yes, yes, but I think he hasn't done so, and therefore he doesn't have enough perspective to make the right decisions.
Thank you for your response, and I will follow your advice.