Deep questioning,

Hello… A friendship with someone of the opposite sex seems to be falling apart without me understanding why… I’m questioning myself a lot and would like to know what’s going on in this friend’s head, so I can move on, as this situation is holding me back. I’d like to know if I did something wrong so I don’t make the same mistakes again… Lately, he’s been putting distance between us in the little virtual contact we had…
Thank you

Hello,

Your friend isn't ready for a relationship; he needs time, and I get the feeling that at times
He is uncomfortable around you; he may sense your distress, but in any case, he will come back.
to have a discussion with you about what’s bothering him, so that everything can start on a good footing

Marylena

Thank you, Marylena, for your response.
Uncomfortable, yes, at first I wasn't either.
I am married, faithful, but I am not afraid of my emotions because I know where I am going.
Male-female friendship can sometimes involve a few ambiguities, but at 47, I know that this sort of thing tends to settle down quite quickly.
I was not provocative in my emails, but I navigated between yin and yang in response to his attitude.
A sort of test, actually.
This friend is also a friend of my very ill husband.
I need to be surrounded by strong, clear people.
The rest of my destiny may be trying.
And we are very alone.
I know I’ve already been very lucky that you replied, but do you think you could confirm what I said above?
By examining more closely whether her discomfort is caused solely by me, or whether it is also a matter of her own behavior?
Thank you very much.
Blessed be.

Hello Hope,

As I told you earlier, there is this underlying malaise within you; you need to make peace with yourself and learn to know yourself, but your friend is not ready either. Give him some time; you will certainly be able to maintain a beautiful friendship.

Happy Sunday

Marylena

Thank you, Marylene, for taking the time.
The situation escalated at breakneck speed.
And I think I know where it leads me.
A key element was missing from your interpretation; if you're interested now that the situation has been resolved, I can provide feedback for your analysis. But it's not required...
All the best to you, and thank you again.

Hello Hope

I'm delighted that a situation is coming to a resolution, and I would be thrilled to receive your feedback on your analysis. This allows us to continue evolving and enriching our interpretations, as it is not always easy to express what we see and feel with the right words, and sometimes simply listening to others is enough to feel better.

Have a good day

Marylena

Thank you for your interest; I will take the time this week to describe the situation to you.
In order, of course, to allow you to hear what I had not said on the public forum, so that you can help others in my situation.
Have a nice day