How to get in touch?

Hello everyone,

I would need advice on “communication with the deceased.” Let me explain:
I have previously had some “contact” with the afterlife, in the form of sensations of being touched, someone breathing on my neck, black shadows passing in front of me, and so on. I don’t know if I should mention this, but I am of Romani descent through my great-grandmother. The women in my family have always been more than just attracted to the paranormal.

Unfortunately, my mother passed away in early February... I am an only child, and it has been very difficult for me to cope with in every sense of the word.
So, I thought that after her death, my mom would try to talk to me, to signal me… I know it’s only been two months, but on my end, I’m feeling the need for it more and more… I have this sense of incompleteness… as if she had something to tell me… as if we had something to say to each other.
I felt the need to have his gold chain with the cross near me, by the side of my bed… One of his hairs is still caught on the chain, by the way… He was wearing it at the time of his death. I had this urge completely spontaneously, even though I was already in bed and the chain was in another room, neatly stored in my jewelry box.

This morning, I had a conversation with my aunt (my mother’s sister), who confessed that she had seen her the other day. She described a sort of “flash.” She told me that my mother had asked her to stop trying to contact her, as she had “a lot of work” and that her thoughts were occupied with me…

So here is my question: how can I get in touch with her?? I know nothing about spontaneous writing or any other methods, for that matter. I have always “felt” or seen certain things without doing anything.

My aunt told me, “Let your thoughts unfold on their own and don’t force it; that’s the only way they can pass.”

I may be waiting too long for her to make a move, and in the end, I’ll end up closing “the door”??

I need your advice, and I thank you all in advance for your valuable help.

Thank you

Hello Soliflore,

The advice I can give you is first not to be rushed by the fact that you want a sign from your mother. In the beyond, in the space-time realm if I may put it that way, it is not the same as on our earth, and you must be patient for your mother’s spirit to manifest itself, and she will give you a sign in one way or another. You can direct your prayers to her, let time do its work, and go research on the internet to improve your gifts; there are sites that will instruct you. And then, what you can do in the meantime—I practice this often, but you must be very attentive to every movement—is to pose a question to your mother, and you will see that you will receive an answer through an intermediary such as a song, a conversation, an email, or something else. Things will happen naturally, and you will be ready when your mother gives you a sign.
I hope the few pieces of advice I’ve offered so far will satisfy you,

regards

Marylena

I sincerely thank you for your advice, Marynela.
Yesterday, I had a long conversation with my grandmother (my mother's mother), who also confessed to having "gifts"... She has been kissing my mother every night before going to sleep since her death... She saw my grandfather, who had been dead for a long time, every morning in her bedroom, etc...

I will follow your advice and ask her specific questions, and patiently wait for her to come through and establish contact. I feel her near me… she is with me every day in my thoughts.

On my end, my “predispositions” seem to be linked to the passage between life and death; I am increasingly realizing that I know when people are going to die. I had my first revelation at age seven with my grandpa; I knew he had died at that very moment… I also see it in people’s eyes; I can recognize death, I know when it is near… it’s scary to say, I think. I’m going to do some research online and see how to channel all of this.

Thanks again for your help. I have a lot of questions and I’m a bit lost with all of this…

Best regards,

Single-stem

Hello

I'm giving you a link to some works you can read

Allan Kardec's Book of Mediums will help you, and there are other works you can consult.

Good luck

Marylena

Hello Marynela,

Thank you so much again for your help and support.

I'll keep you posted,

Best regards,

Single stem