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Hello Marylena,

A few months ago, through a work project, I met a man, and a very strong friendship developed, which quickly turned into love for me. This man has literally upended my life… and quite powerful bonds have formed between us. I quickly shared my emotions and feelings with him, and I remain convinced that he is not indifferent, except that for some time now I have had no news from him at all…
So I have countless questions: did I drive him away, am I really ready, is he, does he love me… etc.
This man has taken up all the space in my heart, so I would like to know if you think a relationship is still possible and that I need to be patient, or if I should forget about him (which is already extremely difficult)…
Thank you in advance for your insight, as I am currently feeling my way in the dark... My date of birth is 04/07/71
Nelchael…

Hello,

There is a tender passion between you, but your friend is not yet ready to face reality and start a romantic relationship; he has certainly experienced a breakup. Be patient, and if you can, have discussions together, even if it starts off as pure friendship.

Marylena

Thank you, Marylena,

So I will wait, the hardest part being not knowing the color of his feelings toward me; I think you are confirming to me that he is not indifferent, and I will let him come back to me, trying not to be too forward…

Thank you so much for this insight, which reassures me…
Have a good day

Nelchael

Hello Marylena,

Happy May Day to you too,

I'm reaching out to you again because I'm desperate; I haven't heard anything from the man I told you about, and I was wondering if I should contact him myself. This silence is completely devastating me… The more time passes, the more I tell myself that he no longer thinks about me, that he's going about his life peacefully, and that I should do the same, but I can't forget him; he's part of my daily life, whether he likes it or not…

What should I do, thank you in advance Marylena
Nelchael…

Hello,

Do what your heart tells you to do; as the saying goes, it’s better to try and fail than to do nothing at all. Your friend is a bit lost and doesn’t dare to make a move. Take a chance and reach out to him again; at least you’ll know where you stand, because he has feelings for you.

Marylena