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I can't take it anymore!!!!

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Hello, the magician…
I don't know what to do anymore; my in-laws are constantly at my place, they meddle in everything, and they're always telling me what I should do… I'm fed up.
I am seriously considering leaving home with my children; my husband does nothing and just lets things happen (as usual). Yet he sees that I am always crying, even if he can’t do anything about it.
Moreover, with our granddaughter arriving in a month, I’m afraid it will get worse… I can’t stand them anymore…
Do you see anything?? A move, a discussion, or something else?
My numbers are 5/14/12/6/3!

Thank you in advance for the time you will spend replying to me!!

Good evening Césab,

Yes, I understand that you're fed up, but it's up to you to put the dots on the i's, because after all, you're in your own home, so you can do or say whatever you want!
To answer your question, I don't see any move in the near future.
It's up to you to assert yourself, even though your husband is too lenient; in short, you are married to him, not to his family!
There will be a discussion, but if your husband’s family respects you and wants the well-being of your future child, I think they will respect your choices. However, for that to happen, your husband must also be willing to reach an agreement by advocating for you with his family, and by daring to tell them to respect ours, which, I won’t hide it from you, is not a sure thing.
Your husband wears the pants in his family!

Have a good evening
Keep me posted…

The magician.

Hello, and thank you for this response…
My husband and I had a discussion, and given my distress, he is going to speak to them on Saturday, so I’m keeping you posted… I’m crossing my fingers that they understand and that they don’t hold it against me…
See you soon and thank you again…

Hello,
As promised, I am keeping you informed of the situation…
My husband finally spoke with his parents, not in the way he should have, but he did it. I think his father understood well, but his mother not so much. So we are counting on his father to tell her openly, in his own way, hoping that she will understand then. I feel relieved now, and we’ll see in the future whether they actually follow through…

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