Psychological distress

Hello,
I’ve been asking myself a lot of questions for the past four months, and I’d like to know whether I’m right to stay positive and fight for what I want, or whether it’s doomed to fail and I should just accept it and give up.
I'm really lost.
Thanks if anyone can help me, let me know what you need.

Hello Alabama78,

Ask me a specific question and choose 3 numbers between 1 and 22

See you soon
The magician.

3 digits : 2-12-21

The question Will there be any changes in my relationship?
Me: 04/14/78
Him: 04/11/85

Even if it’s negative, don’t hesitate to tell me; I can take it all.
Thank you.

Hello Alabama78,

As an Aries, I am a demanding person who wants to move forward.
He is a Scorpio, an unstable, tormented, and secretive person.
In response to your question, a development is possible regarding your relationship, although at present I sense unspoken things on the part of your partner, or perhaps on your part... It is as if somewhere, another person occupies your thoughts, which could, of course, be interpreted in the conditional, as an infidelity or extramarital affair that prevents you from progressing in your relationship.
But if you truly want this expected progress, it could happen within the next three months. However, dare to open up, exchange, and tell us everything, because right now I sense you are a bit shut off in your own corner, and that's not the solution!

Have a good day
The magician.

Thank you for your reply.
Indeed, there are things my partner is keeping from me, and I have been trying to communicate since mid-March, but he refuses and even becomes aggressive when I ask him questions or ask him to be clear. He refuses any dialogue.
I do indeed suspect that he has feelings for another person, or even that he is having an extramarital affair. He denies it, of course, despite several pieces of evidence that do not work in his favor.
What I would like to know is whether it is possible for him to be faithful to me, or whether he will always look elsewhere, because in addition to the lies, I would not be able to tolerate infidelity…

Hello Alabama78,

To answer your question, I would say that a Scorpio man is capable of loyalty; however, he is a sign that loves to please and seduce, but generally, when he loves someone, he remains whole and faithful.
But what unfortunately fuels the doubt, the suspicions are of course his silences, his lack of confidence or exchange, and in this respect he is by nature a secretive personality who does not easily reveal himself.

Warm regards
The magician.

Okay, I’ll try to reassure myself, and I’ll keep you posted on how things develop.
Thank you very much for the time you gave me.

New elements have come to light that make me doubt his sincerity toward me even more; I really feel like he’s treating me like a fool and playing me.

Do you have any new information to share with me, please?

If needed: 22 - 6 - 3.

Thank you in advance…

Hello Alabama78,

The new elements do indeed reveal the presence of another person in your partner's life, but to be honest, it makes him uncomfortable because he can't make up his mind, as he wants to preserve your family life.
In short, he's going in circles without knowing what to do or which decision to make.
So, a matter to watch…

Have a good day
The magician.

Good evening,

Thank you for your quick reply. I waited a little before responding myself, preferring to take a step back…

I am tired of hearing him tell me that I am paranoid, and of him making me feel guilty because he accuses me of criticizing him, and that it is therefore I who am harming our relationship… even though I can clearly feel that his mind is elsewhere, and that he is incapable of loving two people at once. He says that he loves me, but in the same tone he might use to say that he wants to leave me. Moreover, as soon as we talk about the person involved, he gets angry and shuts down the conversation…

What disappoints me most is his lies, and the cold, distant way he talks to me.

That is why I doubt his love for me, even though he assures me that he does not want to leave me.

However, he cannot have his cake and eat it too. That is to say, he wants a woman at home who he is kind to when she says nothing, and the moment she asks for an explanation, he tells her that she annoys him, that she always repeats the same thing (and well: if he helped find solutions, it could be over), and that she is only trying to harm the couple… Plus a love on the outside, with whom it is so easy, since they do not live together, have no past, and no children.

I feel like with me, he behaves like a child who answers to no one, who doesn’t have to justify himself or apologize. With her, it’s different; he has empathy for her and supports her… it kills me.

If he cares so much about our family, I believe he does not care about our relationship, yet: a family cannot stand without a united couple at its foundation…

I wonder if it doesn't actually suit him to leave our relationship problems unresolved, to reassure me, and to show me kindness, tenderness, and love. That way, my fears, my anxieties, and my questions always resurface, and he uses them as a pretext to “decompress” elsewhere… as if he didn't want to be happy in a relationship and was looking for excuses to go out and see other people…

Sorry for the length of the text... I'm really at my limit (also, I'm due in less than 15 days, so my head is full, but not in the way I'd like it to be.)

Hello Alabama78,

Focus on this upcoming birth and nothing else, and you will see that love will be reborn!
You also need to know that many men who are psychic see their partners in full pregnancy, it can scare them and destabilize them, because in the end, without showing it, they too experience the discomfort but have difficulty accepting it, hence sometimes their strange attitudes.
He doesn't want to leave you because deep down, he is looking forward to that event just as eagerly as you are.
Keep me posted… And take care of yourself!

With all my friendship
The magician.

Okay, and thank you
I will keep you informed.