my future

Hi, my husband and I no longer get along; we argue too much and it’s starting to get to me. I want to divorce him, but I can’t because of my family. The love I felt for him is starting to fade. He throws jealous tantrums, shows me that he is faithful, and respects me; he shows me that he is the ideal man… Yesterday, I found out that he had been talking to a new friend he had just met on Facebook about our relationship and my behavior, telling her that if I wanted to leave, he would not stop me. What angers me the most is that he asked her for advice on whether he should divorce me or not… What nonsense… I just want to know what I should do?

Hi Rosalie,

I don't understand why you can't get a divorce because of your family; in other words, what business is it of theirs?
You tell me that despite his jealousy fits, he acts toward you like the ideal man… A sign that he doesn’t want to lose you…
Regarding his new friend on Facebook, it’s quite ambiguous, given that he asked her for advice on whether he should divorce or not.
It’s as if he’s waiting for approval from this friend, but what is he waiting for in return?
What you should do is stop staying under her thumb and dare to impose your conditions on her in a frank and direct dialogue!
For the continuation of your relationship, give me 3 numbers between 1 and 22.

See you soon
The magician.

Hi, why don't I want to divorce? I lost my mother, I don't know my father, and I have two little sisters. Before going to my husband's place, my uncle told me that once I leave the family home, I won't be able to return, even if I'm divorced. And since I don't work, how am I supposed to manage or where would I go if I divorced? My marriage is only 14 months old. I have this kind of husband who, every time we argue, brings up my past to get to me. I've talked to him so much, setting limits, but nothing works; he says whatever he wants to say, and I'm not allowed to answer him with "no," "I don't know," "I can't," or "I don't want to." Where I am, I'm very stressed, and I'm not happy... My numbers are 3, 10, 13.

Hi Rosalie,

You live in a family atmosphere that is heavy, oppressive, and patriarchal, which struggles to evolve, especially due to your uncle’s imposition that forces you not to leave the family home, under threat of being excluded if you divorce.
In short, it remains the status quo because I don’t see any change on the horizon, since logically there are almost no options available to you at the moment.

Have a good day
The magician.