Relationships

Hello Lemagicien,

I have two men on my mind, and I’d like to know if something will happen with one of them, whether a closer connection or perhaps a beautiful relationship?

G: 22 - 19 - 15 - 6

E: 16 - 17 - 7 - 22

Thank you in advance for the time you will take to reply to me.

Have a good weekend.
Memel

Hello Memel,

If you really know either of the two, I would say you might have a chance with E., as G. seems to be an unfree and quite unfaithful man.

Happy Saturday
The magician.

Good evening, Lemagicien,

To answer you, I had an affair with G, several times, but we don't live close by, so it never went anywhere. I don't know if it would be different if we were geographically closer.

As for E, he’s interested, and so am I, but I still have G on my mind, so I’m not sure whether to pursue things with E or not, while making it clear that for now, I’m not looking for commitment.

Thank you for your reply.
Good evening!
Memel

Hello Memel,

As for G., it has nothing to do with geography, because if he were truly interested in you, he would try to contact you regularly or daily, and I don't think that's the case.
If there are budding feelings between you and E., then in that case, give yourselves a chance and try to forget G.
Love is not necessarily a matter of attraction, of being interested, or of wondering whether to take the plunge, but rather of an emotional rapport that develops between two people!

Happy Sunday
The magician.

Hello Lemagicien,

It’s a bit more complicated than that. When I met G, he was about to move abroad and was being harassed by his ex. So we went through a period of significant geographic distance and time zone differences; we stayed in regular contact, but not necessarily every day.

Anyway, he’s a very “free” kind of person; he doesn’t necessarily keep anyone updated, but that doesn’t mean he’s not thinking about people. I had just broken up with my partner, whom I was still living with. So I asked him not to call.

That’s all for the “lack of news,” which you’ve clearly noticed, but which is “explainable” and therefore, in my view, not proof of his disinterest in me. It’s mainly our respective situations that make everything complicated, but I’ve always had the hope that with time, once I have my own apartment, things will be simpler.

As for E, I met him recently, so for now I’m letting things take their course; there’s an attraction, and we’ll see if it develops over time.

Happy Sunday.
Memel