colleague or higher

Hi, the magician

I have been married to Raymond (01/10/1958) for 30 years, but I am attracted to a colleague named Christophe. I am lost and disturbed.
My husband works with us, which makes the situation complicated.
Is it reciprocal? What will happen to me? Thank you for your reply.

Hello Carmaine,

Raymond, your companion is a first-decan Libra, which indicates a sensitive and jealous person, even if he doesn't necessarily show it, so my advice is: watch out for still waters!
Because I get the impression that you're playing with fire a bit!
Pick 3 numbers between 1 and 22 to see where this attraction towards your colleague Christophe might evolve.

See you soon and have a good Sunday
The magician

Hi, the magician

Thank you for your response. I am aware that I am playing with fire, but I am not doing anything wrong. My colleague and I have a friendly email contact, but nothing more has ever been said or done. Is this attraction mutual? What will happen to me? Here are my numbers: 2 8 11

Looking forward to reading from you soon.

Carmaine

Hello Carmaine,

There is attraction between you and Christophe, but aside from your friendly email exchanges, your relationship remains nonetheless platonic.
What could happen, if we take it in the conditional, is that the lover-mistress dynamic might emerge over time!
You're not doing anything wrong, but it's still a dangerous game, so try to keep it all a secret!

It was a pleasure, and have a good day.
The magician.

Hello the Magician, and thank you for your reply.

Can you tell me if Christophe is in a relationship, and do you think this attraction is genuine? Does he want to get to know me better, just as I want to get to know him? Thank you

Hello Chloé21- Carmaine,

As I mentioned before, I believe the attraction between you and Christophe is genuine; he probably wants to get to know you better, but to do so, you need to communicate and take the first step.
He must have his circle of friends, that’s for sure, but to find out if he’s in a relationship, I’ll need you to pick three numbers between 1 and 22.

Good afternoon, and see you soon
The magician.

Hi

Here are my numbers: 1 10 20

We exchange thoughts when we meet and discover each other.
I even lent him a book. I really enjoy these exchanges; do you think he does too?
I would like to know if he has a family. Thank you very much.

Good evening.

Hello Carmaine - Chloé,

If he accepted the book you lent him, it’s a sign that he enjoys this exchange. I see him as a happy and fulfilled man, but as for whether he is currently in a relationship, I don’t know—it’s possible… but go ahead and ask him, because otherwise, as I told you, your relationship will remain purely platonic. Therefore, ask him the questions that matter to you with diplomacy.

Have a good day
The magician.

Hi, and thanks.
As we had discussed with Christophe the music he enjoyed, he lent me a CD of his and told me about his friend. I am not disappointed; I think it is better this way, especially since it is not easy at work.
Yet I do have a question: why, since we are both in relationships, are we attracted to someone else? Thank you for your answer.

Hello Carmaine,

You are drawn to each other because, apparently, you share the same passions, books and music, and you have to know that the forbidden always attracts, as it provides a certain adrenaline rush and takes many people out of their routine daily lives!

Have a good day
The magician.

Hello, The Magician,

Thank you for your reply. I am wondering, because before we shared our tastes with Christophe, I felt a physical attraction, which I believe is essential. What bothers me about this exchange is that it is always me who reaches out to him in our emails. I tried to let it go, and he never came to me, except when I run into him. Can you tell me why? Do you confirm that I am attractive to him? I need to know, even if it does not go any further. I am having my midlife crisis (lol). Thank you for your answers. I look forward to reading from you again.
Carmaine

Good evening Carmaine,

It is certain that physical attraction is paramount for any nascent relationship, as it is one of the drives that pulls one toward the other.
Christophe is apparently a man who is not free, just like you, so I suppose that, in order not to be caught off guard by his friend or partner, he takes his precautions, despite the desire or attraction he feels for you.
The midlife or fifties crisis involves a search for adrenaline, but given one’s life experience, one refrains from doing anything reckless, because while one may fantasize and desire, one also wants to cover one’s bases!
Love is often capricious, so from the age of forty to fifty, we learn to be careful!

See you soon and have a good weekend
The magician.

Hello, The Magician,

I hope you are doing well. I am following up on your last message. I don’t know if I’ve told you before, but my husband also works with us. That is why the situation is so complex and why we are both being so reserved.
You didn't answer me regarding the fact that it's always me who reaches out to him and never the other way around? What is he afraid of? Anyway, apart from him and me, no one knows about our exchanges. Can you give me your opinion? Thank you and have a good day.

Hello Carmaine,

I'm doing well… thank you, and I hope you are too…
Yes, you had told me that all three of you work together, hence the need for caution and restraint, of course.
Christophe must be afraid of being caught off guard, so he doesn't dare to commit too much and is waiting for you to make the first move.
And besides, you know, women are sometimes braver, more enterprising, and more daring to take risks than men!

Have a good day and a happy Sunday.
The magician.

Hello, the Magician

It's true that men aren't very brave (lol).

Thank you very much for the time you took to reply to me, and thank you for your advice.

I will be sure to get back to you in case things change.

I wish you all the best.

Carmaine