needs

Hello, the magician,
Could you tell me what C and I need in our relationship?
What are my needs? 2/5/7
What are his needs? 3/8/16

thank you,
shanti

Hello Shanti,

As for your needs, you seem to be looking for success, intimacy, and fidelity with C.
C. in needs seems to be a person who is content with little, but who needs your presence.

I wish you a good Sunday.
The magician.

Hello, the magician,
I have taken some distance from this relationship.

Hello Shanti,

Yeah, I can understand why you've put some distance between yourself and C., because this kind of relationship, where you're expected to support them, is more the domain of a social worker or a psychotherapist.
That is not the purpose of a romantic relationship.
Conseil no longer chases after him, and if he truly wants to build something, he should make himself known and prove his intentions, because going in circles gets us nowhere!

Happy Easter Monday.
The magician.

And what you’re telling me is a piece of advice for relationships with all men, isn’t it: “If he really wants to build something, let him show up and prove his intentions.” I am gentle and expressive enough that a man who has touched me should take the initiative and decide whether or not to move forward. In any case, that is how I have decided to live… no longer waiting months or years.
Thank you, Magic Man! May your week be blessed!

Hello Shanti,

Yeah, it’s advice I give to many people, because when love comes along, everything should flow naturally without one of them having to chase the other.
You demonstrate your love, expressiveness, and tenderness, which are your qualities, but for a man to take charge, he must dare to commit to the unknown and a possible new beginning together.
But I fear that many will not dare to cross that threshold.
Dare to live your life, set your boundaries or ultimatums, but stop waiting months or years for C to make a decision.

I wish you a good week!
Blessings and wisdom upon you

The magician.