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Hello, The Magician!

I’m reaching out to you regarding a clairvoyance session you had done about a shared housing arrangement that was being considered and which has now come to fruition. You had advised me and indicated that it would go well if everyone had their own space and respected that of the others.
You were right. And for good reason, my partner and I feel overwhelmed and out of place despite the rules that were set from the start.
It should be noted that we had planned to set up a three-person shared apartment, but our friend’s girlfriend joined in, and (out of kindness to help her out until she left to work in Switzerland) we agreed.
But there’s been a rivalry in the air for a while now (or is that just my imagination?).
At least, it seems to us (my boyfriend and me) that there’s a certain immaturity in the air. The rules for living together aren’t really being respected; they invite their friends over very often without consulting us and do everything on their own without ever offering to share anything with us…
We don't feel at home or respected. I can't even concentrate on my studies. I wonder if there's anything we can do, given that our friend's girlfriend is leaving in January and he's apparently more pleasant and sociable when she's not around.
Can we hope for a good understanding once she is gone?
I intuitively sense malicious ulterior motives, but since I am starting to feel resentment myself, I can’t tell the difference… And talking to them to clarify certain things doesn’t help much; we’ve already had several discussions to clear things up without much success.
I actually have two questions:

Would Jade, the girlfriend, try to break up the upcoming cohabitation between her boyfriend (Jérémie), my boyfriend, and me out of jealousy?

My numbers: 7-10-19

If we tweak the rules a bit by more strictly delineating the territory allotted to each person, will the three-way cohabitation go well?

8-14-21

Thank you for this insight, as I am a bit at my wit's end and my boyfriend and I need to make a decision.
In the meantime, I wish you a
Have a great weekend to you too!

See you soon,

Dora.

Hello Dora!

Thank you for your clairvoyance feedback!
Living in a shared apartment is a bit like a holiday camp or a return to a hippie commune for some. It helps financially by splitting the rent and other costs, but you have to realize that living day-to-day with other people isn't always easy, given the different personalities, temperaments, and attitudes that you have to learn to put up with.
As long as everyone pays their financial share, the rules established at the outset eventually cease to be a priority, because once one has paid one's due, in the end each person ends up claiming their share of the territory.
For my part, I perceive no sign of rivalry, but perhaps some immaturity, as they do not offer to share their friends in terms of knowledge or activities.
What are you and your boyfriend supposed to do to assert yourselves, but again, it will depend on the type of rental contract that you all presumably signed together, and in the worst case, just tell them to "go look elsewhere."
I think your friend and his girlfriend don't even realize the inconveniences they are causing you.
I perceive Jade as a lively, enthusiastic girl who loves to have fun and enjoy the good moments, but not as someone looking to break up the housemates or being jealous.
Yes, I advise you and your boyfriend to delineate the territory assigned to each of you, and then the three of you will get along fine; others need to understand that privacy and friendship don’t go together!

Have a good start to the week
The magician.

Good evening and HAPPY NEW YEAR to you, The Magician!!

It’s strange, but I just noticed that you had replied to my last two messages, even though I was no longer expecting a response since I wasn’t notified by my Gmail inbox as usual that you had replied to me ( :hushed_face:I was surprised, even though at the time I told myself that maybe you had been overbooked and had "missed" my messages.
In short, I just saw your responses/clairvoyances and I thank you very much for them. :slight_smile: even if the subjects in question belong to the past.
For my pregnancy, indeed, there was no baby; you had just “seen” it. I had a “miscarriage” (lost the embryo without having an abortion). I wasn’t sure I wanted to have a child now. I’ve been a bit anxious about this incident ever since, but I wasn’t ready, and I told the entity that wanted to incarnate (yes, sometimes I doubt these things, I tell myself that after all, who knows, maybe an invisible world does exist…). Anyway, whatever the case may be, I prayed for it to happen naturally and said that when I was ready, I would welcome it. The next evening, I miscarried in the bathroom. :nauseated_face:
Otherwise, regarding the flatshare, if Jade (who was supposed to leave for work in Switzerland) hadn’t been worried about the upcoming flatshare between her boyfriend, my boyfriend, and me, I didn’t understand what was going on in her boyfriend’s head, but he announced the day before they left for their vacation (and before she left directly for Switzerland afterwards) that he didn’t want to stay, that he didn’t feel well and wasn’t suited for the flatshare (?). She didn’t even say “goodbye” to my boyfriend, and since then, no news. Not jealous, Jade? In any case, if you were right about the vitality and enthusiasm, I thought that, judging by her behavior and reactions, she had an issue with her attachment to Jérémie and spending her time monopolizing him, as if to make sure we weren’t any closer to him than that. A mutual friend (who likes her) later told me that she lacked confidence… and yet I did nothing to make her worry. Anyway, he found an apartment as soon as he got back from his vacation in early January. My boyfriend, who is a very gentle, calm, fair, and honest person, was relieved by their departure because he could no longer stand the atmosphere in their presence. We figured they hadn’t even realized what they were putting us through, just as you had concluded about this situation. :wink: Immaturity? No doubt about it.
I'm reaching out to you because I'd like to know if you see any changes for me on a professional level (I'm not currently working, I'm finishing my year of study/training, and I've just applied for a part-time position as an art therapist in a retirement home in Montpellier) and regarding my ongoing training, my Art Therapy certification, and my Master's in Psychoanalysis. Will it have a happy ending or not?
For the defense of my Art Therapy thesis, I would like to know if it will go well (?) and whether it will take place in two months or more (?)
Here are my figures/numbers:

1-18-7

And for the end of the Master’s, I’ve been struggling to get back into it since the start of the academic year; it’s worse than last year in terms of the papers I have to write, and yet I read quite a bit and I’m still just as interested…
So I'm wondering if things will work out and if I'll get this Master's degree (?)

17-14-21

Thank you in advance for this clairvoyance. I see that you are still in high demand.

Have a lovely evening and the rest of your weekend!

Kind regards,

Dora.

Hello Dora,

Happy New Year 2014, Dora, may all your wishes come true!
I'm not receiving any AZ notifications in my inbox either.
Sorry about the miscarriage, yes, the invisible world really does exist!
As for the issues and interpersonal dynamics in the shared housing, forget about it and move on, because in the end, you were all fed up with it.
From a financial sharing standpoint, it helps, but it brings quite a few hardships to deal with in the long run!
From a professional standpoint, I see a happy ending for you, which means success.
Your art therapy thesis defense will probably go just as well, perhaps even this month, in early March.
Finishing a master’s thesis indeed requires a lot of toil, research, and files to study and file, but again, given the reading, I see you being able to obtain it, so stay optimistic and persevering, with results to be expected around the summer period.

Warm regards and have a good evening
The magician.

Thank you so much for your quick reply, it really warms my heart, especially when I’m as overwhelmed as I am right now.
Besides, to announce some very good news about my upcoming achievements and the degrees I am set to earn :wink: !

It’s silly to say, but I’m well aware that many people are suffering on this Earth and that I’m really complaining about nothing much in the end (but I feel it like a torment, probably another one of my Superego’s tricks :smiling_face_with_horns: ), compared to what others have to endure, it’s nothing rationally speaking, and I know it. The worst part is when I see people like that, who have a physical disability or a difficult material living condition, achieve wonderful things with a genuine smile on their lips, while I feel so constrained by so little.
Anyway, whatever the case may be, it gives me the taste for doing my best with this clairvoyance.
Thank you again for these readings and your kind attention and encouragement.

Yes, I would like to be certain that there is indeed an invisible world and that I have no reason to worry... I may one day have that certainty if I can investigate this matter more deeply, as I was telling you, through a thesis research.
But everything in its time :wink: :stuck_out_tongue:

Have a very good evening and weekend.

See you soon!

Kind regards,

Dora.

Hello Dora,

Each of us carries their cross in their own way, sometimes lamenting ourselves unjustly, thereby awakening in our consciences what others suffer or endure ten to a hundred times over.
The awakening of that which is incomparable on a personal level in terms of hardships compared to others is wisdom, for it leads us to see and understand others.
So let us learn life through the smiles that the most struggling among us offer us, sometimes and often without daring to ask for anything.
What a great life lesson, isn't it?
In life, we constrain ourselves even because of non-utilities that seem so indispensable to us, which leads to credit and debt.

Have a good day
Best regards

The magician.

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