A sentimental question

Hello Lemagicien,

Recently separated from my lover, I would like to know if you see a reconciliation between us? 22-3-21-20

Thank you and have a good evening.

Hello Bettina44,

Yes, you can expect a reconciliation with your partner; in my opinion, things moved too fast between the two of you, and I think he wanted to run away from his responsibilities or commitment promises.

Have a good day
The magician.

Good evening Lemagicien,

Oh great, you're giving me hope again!
Yes, as you say, it went very fast at first, and that scared him.
Can you tell me if you see this resumption between us soon? 14 - 5 - 22 - 18
If I may push my luck: is he the one who will make the first move? 3 - 15 - 10 - 8

Thank you very much and have a good evening!

Hello Bettina44,

In my opinion, he will be the one to make the first move, and in terms of timing, I would say this resumption could happen quite soon.

Have a good day and Happy May Day.
The magician.

Thank you, Lemagicien,

I really hope it goes the way you say it will!
I am taking the liberty of asking another question: will this lead to a serious relationship between us?
18-13-9-5

Thank you and have a good weekend!

Hello Bettina44,

Fingers crossed!
A serious relationship is possible, but it requires dialogue and constructive exchange; in short, he needs to be open while learning to let go of his past.
So, as mentioned before, there is hope!

Have a good weekend
The magician.

Hi,

I wanted to tell you that, indeed, he reached out to me again.
He asked me if we could meet, and I agreed.
But for now, there’s no resumption between us. I can feel he’s scared; I thought he was going to kiss me, and then suddenly he said he had to leave.

Do you see another meeting between us soon? 20 - 14 - 18
And if so, do you see the resumption of our story at that time, please? 17 - 20 - 6

Thank you!

Hi Bettina44,

Yes, a next meeting will take place between the two of you.
He tries to resume, but still hesitates, and as you say, you could really feel that he still has that fear inside him, that fear of committing further, even through a kiss.
He'll get back to you, but be patient! "Ah, the guys"

Have a good weekend
The magician.

Hi Lemagicien,

how do you say “ah, the guys”!!!
It’s frustrating because I don’t know how to handle him. If he needs time, I tell myself that if I follow up, he might feel “pressed” and get even more anxious. But if I don’t follow up at all, I’m afraid he’ll forget about me or think I don’t care…

Happy Sunday!

Hi Lemagicien,

I am going to a place where I suggested to J that they come with me.
He said he couldn't because he already had something planned, but he immediately offered to drive me part of the way (I usually take the train) and to invite me to lunch on the way.

I’d like to know whether you see a romantic connection between us during this trip, or whether he’s still in his “let’s stay friends” mindset: 2 - 13 - 17
I want to believe that he’s not making this offer “for no reason,” but at the same time, I’m really afraid of making things up in my head and being disappointed again.

Thanks for your help and have a good weekend!

Hi Bettina44,

If J. invites you to lunch, that is already a step toward seeking dialogue and getting closer to you.
There is hope, but it is too early to claim that a truly romantic relationship is developing, as on one hand he would like it to happen, but on the other hand he continues to keep his distance.
My advice is to just go for it in a chill way without overthinking it.
We'll do another reading later.

Happy Sunday to you!
The magician.

Hi Lemagicien,

Here is my feedback: due to the SNCF strikes, I had to change my plans, so the trip and lunch with J did not take place...

Have a good weekend!

Hi Lemagicien,

How are you?
Well, things have ended up going “badly” with J.
I definitely felt like he was making fun of me, one day yes, one day no.
I eventually came to understand, or at least convinced myself, that I would never have anything with him.
Was I right, or do you still see a possibility of reconciliation between us, given that he is once again trying to get closer? 16 - 18 - 10

In the meantime, I started seeing someone else. I’d like to know what you see with him, E. Is it going to last, or do you see it as just a brief fling? 17 - 2 - 3

Thanks in advance, and see you soon!
Bettina

Hi Bettina44,

I'm fine, thanks!
"Sometimes yes, sometimes no" relationships are equivalent to long-distance relationships that ultimately lead nowhere.
I think we shouldn't hope to build anything with J; he might try to get a little closer on occasion, but no further.
Your relationship with E. seems to be, and could be, evolving in a pleasant way, as for how long it might last, well, learn to get to know him better!

Have a good day and see you soon
The magician.

Thank you, Lemagicien!

I just have one question: when you tell me to learn to get to know him, is that general advice, or did the cards reveal something that might displease me as I come to know him better?

Thank you and have a good weekend!

Hello Bettina44!

I said that because I think he hasn’t fully revealed himself yet, which can be the case for many people at the beginning of a relationship.
We get to know the others, or the other, little by little over time.

Have a good weekend
The magician.