A bit lost!

Hello Lemagicien,

I hope you're doing well?

Here is my situation: a few months ago, I dated a man. Things were going well, but he chose to break up because my ex was constantly harassing me, and he felt that we would never have peace. On his side, he had already had problems with an ex, so it brought back bad memories for him.
In short, he says he hopes we’ll be able to start on a good footing in the future, but he doesn’t feel ready and wants a friendly relationship, to start over from the beginning, and to give ourselves time.
I really want to be with him, but I can’t force him either, so I feel quite helpless in this situation.
Until then, I was waiting for him, but I ran into a man I had met a few months ago, and we had an affair. I thought it was just about sex, but this man seems to have more serious intentions toward me.
So, I'm really lost.
I don't know if I should wait for “Mr. No. 1” while I have no certainty that he will change his mind and that we will resume working together, or whether I should try with "Mr. No. 2," who is very nice, telling me that we will see how it goes over time.

So I'm asking for your help.
What do you see with the 1st? 5 - 16 - 15
What do you see with the 2nd? 5 - 7 - 6

Thank you so much! I don't know what to think anymore; I want to wait until the 1st, but at the same time, I don't want to waste my time if he doesn't really intend to come back, so a little help from the cards will help me see things more clearly!

Thanks in advance and have a good weekend!

Hello Memel,

I'm fine... thanks, except it's raining.
If your ex keeps harassing you, it’s a sign that you haven’t clearly clarified your situation with him yet, so I encourage you to do so, because otherwise, other men you might meet will likely run away too!
I think he cares about you and wants to start fresh on a healthy footing with you, without having to deal with your ex’s harassment; in short, he’s making it clear that you’re the one holding the cards!
You had an affair with the second one, and to answer your question, I think he is quite a womanizer and not necessarily free-spirited.
Even though the situation is difficult right now with the first one, I would rather advise you to get back in touch with him and wait for him, since you really want to be with him.
In this scenario, you need to ask yourself the right questions, namely what you truly want. Because from one adventure to the next, you waste your time!
Listen to your heart and fight for the one who makes your heart beat!

Have a good weekend!
The magician.

Hello Magic,

The weather isn't great here either!

So, to answer you, yes, I am clear with my ex, since I have divorced. I don't see what I can do better; I have told him many times that for me, it's all over.

And I moved, so I thought “Number 1” would come back to me now that I’m free, but it’s him who doesn’t know what he wants. He hopes we’ll get back together but doesn’t feel ready, and I don’t know what to make of it! I waited four months for him, but now I’m wondering if it really makes sense, which is why I gave in with “Number 2.”
Do you see the 1st coming back to me, please? 20 - 4 - 6

As for the second one, yes, he’s quite a player, but apparently he’s really fallen for me; he talks about me to everyone, even though his friends usually don’t hear about “his girlfriends.” He tells me he wants something serious. Do you think he’s being honest? 17 - 11 - 5

For my part, I’ve wanted to get back together with the first one for months, but at some point I tell myself I shouldn’t waste my time either, and it starts to scare me that he’s so indecisive.

Happy Sunday and thank you again!

Hello Memel,

I hope your ex finally gets it that it’s really over between the two of you!
Waiting for someone for four months without any sign from them, and on top of that not knowing what they want while they tell you they don't feel ready, is a waste of time, and in my opinion, this waiting makes no sense.
My advisor is trying to reach out to him to find out where things stand with regard to you, while making it clear that you are expecting a decision from him.
In response to your question, I would say that No. 1 continues to remain in a position where he cannot figure out what he wants; it is the style of man who takes one step forward and two steps back.
As for number 2, and according to the data from this reading, I see him as being honest with you.
To be continued…

Happy Sunday to you
The magician.

Yes, I hope so for my ex too, because it’s getting heavy!

No, but I assure you, I didn’t wait four months without any news. It’s just that during that time, we saw each other from time to time, without it becoming serious. So I thought that with my move, things would be better, since I’d be further away from my ex, but now it’s been a month and “number one” still seems to be hesitating about what comes next.
He knows that I was waiting for a decision from him, but I made it clear: I’m not waiting for him anymore. Either he gets his act together quickly, or it will be a shame, but we’ll each go our separate ways. As I said, I have no intention of standing around like a fool for the rest of my life!

See you soon!