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Hello, the magician

I am Nathalie, born March 7, 1980. I had already come to speak to you about my situation with Jorge, born October 20, 1978, a few months ago.
Could you please tell me if our relationship is on the right track, whether it will last, and whether they will be moving in with me soon, given that their house is sold by the end of May or early June and that no one will be getting in the way of our relationship?

my numbers 3 7 10 18

Thank you and have a good end to your day, see you soon

Hello Nathalie,

I think your couple is on the right track and that Jorge will finally move in with you.
According to this reading, everything looks positive for the two of you going forward.
Keep me posted…

Have a good end to your day and see you soon
The magician.

Hello and thank you for this response
Yesterday I had a discussion with him; he just sold his house but says he is not ready to live with two people again and prefers to save money by staying with his parents for a few months. I don't know what to think anymore; can you help me?

Hello Nathalie,

What I think is that your friend Jorge’s claims don’t hold water, because if he wanted to, he could also save money by staying at your place.
Give him a sort of ultimatum, telling him that you’re not ready to wait for him for several more months.
If he is a man, then he should take responsibility and fulfill the promises he made to you!

Have a good day
The magician.

Hello

Actually, he tells me that he doesn't want to live off me and save money at my place, making money at my expense. That's why he prefers to live with his parents for a while to save up so he can come to my place later. But I'm afraid he'll keep pushing the deadline back in a few months. What do you think? Is he afraid to commit because of his past?

Hello Nathalie,

I have the impression that your Jorge always manages to get out of it or convince you through a clever move.
I have more of a feeling that he is afraid to commit.

Looking forward to it, and don't overthink it!
The magician.

Thank you, we'll see how it goes. I'll keep you posted.
Yes, I think he's afraid.

Hello, magician
I’m getting back in touch with you because there has been some news about my situation: he just left me, saying he no longer wants children (he already has three). Do you think his decision is final, or is it just that he’s afraid of making the same mistakes as in the past?
my numbers 4 7 13 18
Thank you in advance

Hello Nathalie,

That’s true, Jorge no longer wants to have children because it represents too many responsibilities for him to take on, and I also think that a couple’s life is best with just the two of them.
In other words, he's not ready for all of that, which is why he prefers to keep living with his parents.
He is afraid of renewal, so he prefers to run away, and given the mistakes he has made in the past, he does not take responsibility for what he sows.
He doesn't want any more children, but that doesn't necessarily mean the end of your relationship, because in my opinion he will still keep coming back to you, but I fear he will remain just as unstable and indecisive.
Keep me posted…

Have a good weekend
The magician.

Thank you
So basically, there's no way out, because if you tell me he won't change his mind about having a child, it's over, because I want one.
Is that what you are trying to explain to me?

Hello Nathalie,

My explanation…
Provided Jorge changes his mind, which I don't think is likely, as his desire to have no more children seems final…
You want to have a child with him, even though he no longer wants one; on this point, it is, of course, difficult to find common ground between you.
And as I said, this does not necessarily mean the end of your relationship, but in this context of disagreement, it certainly complicates the outcome of your relationship.
I advise you to discuss this matter of the child and possible cohabitation again, because him staying with his parents is not really the solution either.
It’s up to him to mature, because given all these factors, it’s really he who’s behaving like a child.

Happy Sunday
The magician.