I don't feel well.

Hello

I am married but troubled by a former colleague, Christophe (11/10/1967). He left to work elsewhere in July. We had a good rapport and had agreed to stay in touch. We had a first exchange in September, I sent him a message for his birthday in October, and I received no reply. Do you see a reason for him to respond, out of politeness or friendship? Thank you very much.

Pattoche

Hello Pattoche,

Regarding your question about Christophe, who is a Libra in the second decan, and apparently no one seems to care more about themselves than others, I need you to choose 3 numbers between 1 and 22

See you soon
The magician.

Good evening, The Magician

I didn't quite understand your answer; so he only cares about himself, is that right?

Here are my numbers: 2 8 11

Thank you, and see you soon

Pattoche

Hello Pattoche,

I was telling you about a character trait associated with the sign of Libra.
Regarding your former colleague Christophe, I think he will send you a little thank-you message; as for his love life, I think he may have started or is maintaining a new relationship…

Good afternoon
The magician.

Hello, and thank you for your reply.

Actually, when it comes to her love life, I’ve stopped fooling myself for a while now.

However, you don't tell me whether he has any sympathy for me or not. I wouldn't want to delude myself.

Thank you.

Pattoche

Hello Pattoche,

He certainly has a fondness for you, and consequently, I think he will send you a little thank-you message for the birthday wishes you recently sent him.

Have a good weekend
The magician.

hi

Thank you for your response. Actually, he didn't receive my card; I found out after an email I had sent him, which he replied to. He asked me, "I hope I'm not missing out too much lol, what do you think? Isn't he playing? Thank you"

Hey Pattoche,

If Christophe, your former colleague, tells you that he did not receive your birthday card, it is possible.
On the other hand, I get the impression that it’s you who’s trying to reach out to him, not him.
His "I hope I’m not missing you too much lol" seems a bit ironic as a reply to your email, as it gives the impression that he’s playing cat and mouse with you.

Have a good day
The magician.

Hello The Magician,

I don't understand this person at all. The other day I sent him an email and he replied the next morning. I would like to keep writing to him, but every time I decide to cut off contact, he reaches out. I have to admit I don't know how to handle this. Thank you for your reply.

Pattoche

Hello Pattoche,

Regarding the attitude to adopt toward your former colleague Christophe, it’s up to you to decide what you expect from him, whether it’s friendship or something romantic. Because you seem to be having quite ambiguous exchanges.

Have a good day
The magician.

Hi,

Thank you for your reply. It has never been very clear. There have never been any declarations or inappropriate gestures, but there are looks, winks, and smiles. I think it is more of a friendship. I will admit that what bothers me is that I am always the one reaching out to him, but I want to stay in contact with him. Maybe I will get tired of it one day.
Have a good day

Pattoche

Hello, and thank you for your reply.

Honestly, I don’t understand this person at all. It’s as if he wants to keep up a friendly relationship without making any move himself. I’ll admit I’m completely lost, because on one hand, he’s on my mind, and on the other, I feel like I want to just stop.
Thank you for guiding me a bit.

See you soon

Pattoche

Hello Pattoche,

Continuing to try to maintain a connection with this former coworker, Christophe, who, for his part, doesn’t reach out, is a waste of time, and I admit it’s best to stop!

Have a good weekend
The magician.

Hello

Thank you for taking the time to reply and thank you for your answers.

Pattoche