Hello,
Him, Jean-Philippe, born on August 19, 1966
I am Chrystelle, born on November 20, 1977.
My husband Jean Marc, born on December 9, 1963
Her partner Giselle, born on May 25, 1970
Jean-Philippe and I had known each other for several years through our sons' sports activities.
In March 2014, he came to see me and told me that things were not going well at all at his place, that he could no longer stand his partner, and that he had fallen head over heels for me, giving me details about places and my outfits... it was astonishing since it had been more than a year.
He told me about his past (it’s a heavy one, he has a lot of baggage). Then he kept texting me for a month, and I gave in. I cheated on my husband with him, and we had a passionate, loving relationship full of intimacy, deep conversations, and shared humor. We saw each other three to four times a week, and he called me three times a day, not to mention the texts. We also spent Sundays together for our sons, who rode motorcycles together. In short, we had a lot of good moments. We also had our fights… it wasn’t all roses. I know what that’s like (married for 15 years), but our love for each other was very strong. So much tenderness.
He was crying in my arms, telling me he didn't want to lose me and couldn't imagine what would come next without me, while also saying he was very afraid of losing his son and that it would be complicated for his company since his partner is the managing director. She has a very strong personality and blackmailed him.
So we stayed together from March 2014 to November 2015. After the blowup, when his partner found out, I arranged a four-way discussion on November 11th (our two couples). In front of her, he said he loved me but was staying with her out of fear. He didn’t say anything else, except that he was lost and that he was afraid, afraid of everything. She took over the entire discussion. As for my husband, knowing that I wasn’t happy with him, he hoped that Jean-Philippe would finally make me happy (hat’s off to my husband and his reaction).
I have been waiting since November for Jean-Philippe to come back, to realize that I am missing him terribly, that he made the wrong choice.
Can you confirm that this is the case? That he still loves me just as much?
Will he come back? If so, how soon? When?
Can you help me get him back as soon as possible? Can he stop being a coward?
I’m on antidepressants… I’m breaking down… it’s been a long time since November
I'm lost...
We live in the same village but no longer cross paths.
A major drawback: financially, I can't afford to spend carelessly, as I've been on my own with my three children since January.
I am sending you photos of JP and me.
In February there was a dance party in the village, he was there with his partner and at the end of the evening he got into a fight with a friend of mine who I was dancing with.
Fifteen days ago, his partner made a scene at my workplace, even though I have never tried to get back in touch. So I sent her a text message saying that if she had something to say, she should say it to me, not to my colleague. Then she texted me that indeed JP had been jealous at that famous dance party and told me that everything was fine between them… I don’t believe it… otherwise, why the scene…
In short, I need to know whether he will come back or stay with her.
Thank you
Chrystelle