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Hello… As The Magician advises, I am reaching out to all of you to get your opinions:

I’ve been seeing a man for almost three months, and I lent him a pretty large sum of money… I know he’s honest, but he doesn’t realize that it bothers me… or he doesn’t want to realize it??? He could at least tell me “don’t worry about it, etc., etc., etc.”
Your opinion, whether psychic, medium, or otherwise, is welcome… and I thank you for it.

Good evening, Ortega

I just read your message, which is a bit concerning to me. In my opinion, you trusted this person a little too much. For my part, it’s difficult for me to lend a large sum of money to someone I’ve only known for three months. Now, it all depends on the amount. Are you sure about this person? How long have you been lending them this money?
Okay, I'll think about it, as I need to get ready to go out. I'll probably come back tomorrow. If you want to talk about it a bit more, don't hesitate.

Kisses from the sun too, see you tomorrow.

Véronique

Hi Véro… I understand your reaction… well, I really trust him, that’s not the issue… it’s the fact that he doesn’t realize how much of a burden this is for me… anyway, I’m seeing him several days next week and I’m going to talk to him about it clearly… I haven’t lent it to him for very long, not even a month, I have to say… I’m a bit crazy though, hihihiihiii

Hello Ortega,

I have read the various exchanges regarding your issue in the “Question, clairvoyance” section. A first thought crosses my mind and tells me that if you feel the need to talk about it and are questioning this relationship, especially since this person borrowed money from you, it is because deep down you realize that something abnormal is happening.

First of all, as Lemagicien pointed out in one of his replies, three months is far too short to form a real opinion about a relationship. You have not had enough time to get to know this man. A new romantic relationship goes through three stages. First, getting to know each other, then discovering each other, and, as the saying goes, if there is a connection. In my view, given the youth of your relationship, you are still at the getting-to-know-each-other stage. It is at the "if there is a connection" stage that one can potentially envision building a life together. This project can be considered after about one or two years. In the past, a couple would go through the engagement phase, which allowed both the woman and the man time to discover each other; if their love and harmony were progressing well, they could then make their love concrete through a union. It is a bit of a shame that we have forgotten these values, which ultimately allowed us to protect ourselves.

That is why it does not seem reasonable to me to lend money to someone I barely know.

What bothers me about this man's behavior is how a man of integrity, who should have respect for the woman he has recently been seeing, can ask her to lend him money. That is not done.

Furthermore, before deciding to build a life together, one must be certain that the person with whom one will share their life is trustworthy and honest. Therefore, given his lack of respect toward you—allegedly not realizing the discomfort he causes by not repaying the money you lent him—can we grant him any credibility? In my view, I would not place any trust in him, at least not until he proves that he can be trusted. His attitude is not honest. Since you lent him that sum of money, he should have immediately set up a monthly repayment plan and started paying you back.

In one of your responses to Lemagicien, you said, “this gentleman is going much faster than me… he is a psychic… so he sees before me.” That is not your exact wording, but I wanted to remind you of the meaning of that phrase. What do you mean by psychic? Does this man have gifts, and does he make a profession of them? Besides, you say he is a businessman. If that is the case, why did he turn to you for a financial loan? For this kind of thing, there are plenty of banks and credit institutions to negotiate a loan with, especially if he is a businessman…

Perhaps through your future responses, I could form a precise idea of this uncomfortable situation, although I already have a rough one; in that case, it may become easier for me to help you concretely.

All the same, I cannot advise you strongly enough to have this gentleman sign a promissory note specifying the exact amount of the loan and the repayment method, including the monthly repayment amount. Once he has signed the document, make a copy and give it to a trusted person. A question comes to mind: when you lent him this money, did you hand him the cash or did you write him a check? If he agrees to sign this promissory note without any hesitation, you will be able to see whether his feelings for you are sincere. If you wish, I can send you a template for a promissory note via private message.

Beware of Ortega; it seems to me that this man is a bit manipulative. At first glance, I don’t have a good feeling about him. I hope from the bottom of my heart that I’m wrong, but his attitude doesn’t allow me to have positive thoughts.

I truly am sorry and distressed about what you are going through. The beginning of my post may have seemed a bit harsh and moralistic, but it is my moral duty as a friend to help you and try to find the right path that will allow you to get out of this bad situation. As for the loan, I need to be pragmatic so that we can find the best solution together and so that you can be reimbursed quickly.

Good luck, and you can count on me; I will do everything in my power to help you. To get you out of this situation, you need to think with your head, not your heart.

I am thinking of you

See you soon, kisses

Oh, I'd really like to talk to you more, but it's delicate on the site. I'll try to send you a message via DM if I can!!!

thankkkkkkkkk

Good evening, Ortega,

Our friend Josy has the same ideas and thoughts as I do about your situation. Since you're seeing her next week, talk to her about your financial needs and the fact that you'll need that money quickly. Set a specific date with her, and you'll see her reaction. Pay close attention to her expressions and words, and you'll be able to get a clear picture of who she really is.

I may have a bit too many principles, but a man you’ve only known for a short time shouldn’t have asked you for a loan. Why you? Why didn’t he go to his bank or ask his family?

In any case, I find his behavior strange, and as Josy says, if you're talking about it, it's because something is bothering you in this situation.

I am wholeheartedly willing to support and help you to the best of my ability.

Be careful and have a good evening, Ortega.

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THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE CLEAR SENTENCES YOU KINDLY WRITE FOR ME

Josy, I sent you a DM to give you some more confidential details.

Whatever the case may be, I will indeed ask him clearly when he will reimburse me, as this is causing me significant financial hardship.

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