[The VoyanceAZ.com website] Article: I no longer remember where I stand

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Hello Lilableu,

Your message struck a chord with me; if you wish, join me in the “Outstretched Hand” section, and I will gladly offer you my support and friendship. You are no longer alone, and I will help you build a bridge to find happiness.

Friendly thoughts from Josy

Good evening,
I understand your distress, since it seems we are going through the same kind of things...
But try to look on the bright side.
For my part, it is my faith that keeps me going, and I try to tell myself that if there is no justice on Earth, there is justice up there. Everything gets paid for one day, doesn't it?
Go on, try to smile, and if you need to, knock on my door, I'm here.
Courage!!! Fight for yourself

Thank you for getting back to me. I pray every day and I try to stay positive. I have courage, but I feel like I take two steps forward and then three steps back. Still, I persevere for my little ones. Thank you :'( I hide my pain, but I will make it through. For the sake of honesty, thank you again.

I wish you success, but personally, my situation has gotten worse…
I wish you the opposite.
Good luck and keep me posted

I hope with all my heart that your situation will improve. You need to keep your courage up. You see, I went to the prosecutor's office today and they told me that the request for annulment had never been filed by my lawyer. It was due, but I contacted several people and in the end it will be done, so I'm starting over, but I know where I stand. TOMORROW IS ANOTHER DAY. KEEP STRONG. KISSES, CHRIS

Oh crap, for you...
Would you like to tell me your story? Or better yet, we could exchange our email addresses and help each other out—what do you think?
As for me, I think I’m going to give up…
Good luck

You see, I got married in August 2004. Before the marriage, my husband was perfectly fine. He is of Algerian origin and was undocumented. He got along very well with my children, but as soon as we were married, he completely ignored me and my children. I have never been so shocked in my life—not even a hello when he was there! I filed a complaint because I truly loved my husband. On top of that, I found documents concerning him under other names, and I am currently waiting. Yesterday, I went to the civil court and was told that the annulment request had not been filed. I went to the administration and called my lawyer, who told me she was waiting for the criminal file (the documents found). In fact, they have been received, so she will file the annulment request. The foreign nationals' office created my background file, as did Saint Vincent de Paul, because I no longer see my family of origin. I told my lawyer that I no longer have all the time in the world; I am 48 years old and I want to have another child, and if I don't act my age, menopause will arrive when it arrives. Moreover, I feel humiliated, but my children do not, since there are two men in the house: their father, who passed away, and my husband. And I would never cheat on him as long as we are married. So we're off again. I hope that this time it will be the right one. I must stay in shape, if I may say so, for my children. I sincerely hope that things are going well for you. There is a good God for everyone. Keep up the good spirit, the world is turning. Kisses, Chris

Indeed, it’s not easy…
I assume you've had some news since your message? If so, what is it?
Courage

For me, nothing has changed; quite the opposite, I went to the civil court and they told me that my lawyer had not filed the annulment request. I called her and she says she is waiting for the criminal file, but Mrs. Stimart from the Victim Support Service had been before the judge for about two months, and my lawyer had not checked on it. I went to see the bar president because I am fed up; it has been more than a year and a half that I have been waiting for nothing, and at the civil court they have set my file aside pending my lawyer’s action. The bar president was supposed to call me today, but no news. He probably needs to check. I hope the procedure will now be initiated. Can you imagine that it was the Foreigners’ Rights department that created my history, and that my lawyer had not seen it, nor had St. Vincent de Paul? I am sad for you. Try to fight; I know it is not easy. I must confess that earlier I started to cry; I can’t take it anymore. I prayed, and a couple of friends came by, as if it were fate. I met them at the time of the incident with the little ones, and it did me good, because the children are at camp and I was alone. I stayed locked up all day. Apart from that, I do have some good news: my son passed his exams and is moving on to the third year of general secondary school without any failures. Do you have my MSN address? I don’t know how to communicate easily on the site; I don’t understand it. Keep up the courage. I am with you in spirit and you are in my prayers. Kisses, Chris

Today I’m feeling down. I’m still waiting; everything is in the criminal justice system. I hope that one day I’ll be able to turn the page. I feel like I’m not being heard, like I’m just a number. I feel like a total failure, and I don’t know if I’ll get out of this tunnel. I don’t recognize myself anymore. I always feel the need to justify myself. I’m no longer myself; I’m just going in circles.